Vinsanity1307 Posted September 16, 2013 Share Posted September 16, 2013 So this is my story if you do not know... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/417902-dumped-after-5-years My question is could I send a gift to the kids on their birthday coming up? She has twins that are turning 9 in two weeks. Is that breaking contact if I did so? And is this acceptable? I am not over her but I did enjoy buying gifts for the kids...seeing it was a 5 year relationship...So thoughts please Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted September 16, 2013 Share Posted September 16, 2013 Absolutely not. Not only will it come off as a desperate attempt at contact, but it will confuse the hell out of the kids and cause drama. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted September 16, 2013 Share Posted September 16, 2013 Your relationship is over with her. Those are her kids and that means you have to let them go as well. It will only confuse these children and put them in the middle of this post breakup. Let her go and let them go. Everyone needs to move on from here forward. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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