amytct Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 I felt good when after giving me the silent treatment for a week, he e-mailed and answered some of the questions I had about the end of our relationship. He admitted and apologized that he didn't feel the same way about me, that our relationship didn't have a viable future anymore. I e-mailed him back, thanking him and I told him I still loved him and more than anything, I wish we could meet face to face to discuss things, that this wasn't desperation, it was a sincere desire to try and save the relationship. I then said that if he didn't feel that was right, I understood. Today, he e-mails me and says if I want to talk, he owes me that. I don't know what to do. I don't know if this means he wants to try and save things as well. If he did, and would agree to something such as relationship counseling, I would talk to him. But if all he is going to do is reiterate that he doesn't want to be with me anymore, I don't know the point. Anybody faced something similar and how did you deal with it? I appreciate any and all opinions. Link to post Share on other sites
cantforget Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 I have not been lucky enough to be given the opportunity to talk out my break up with my ex face to face. To be honest I dont think it sounds like he wants to get back together but believe me you can only gain positive from this. It may give you a chance to get some closure which will make it easier to move on. If you knock this back you may always wonder what would have been said, if I were you I couldn't handle that torture. If I were you I would want to meet and talk, but don't get your hopes up, take it for what it is, an opportunity for closure. Just my opinion anyway, good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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