barenaked12 Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 A little bg on my story. Im 22, she's 18. We were together for a year and 3 months. We were broken up bcoz of my issues, i kept promising changes In my behavior but whenever im angry i really cant help but be Angry. But i never yell or scream at her, nor did i hit her when i get Mad... i just kept pushing her, putting words in her mouth, blaming Her for her past mistakes which we agreed not to talk abt anymore but whenever we are in a fight it keeps popping back up and i cant Help it. So she broke up with me and went back to her ex. I dont know for sure but when we were still together she told me That our relationship is a lot different than what she experienced before. I was different, i know that bcoz i have shown her what its like to be with someone Older. We did things differently. We go out, go to the movies, i treat her to some fancy restos, i bought her nice things when i have money. Everything that a girl could ask for. I was her first serious relationship and i was the first one to take her. Now i know that when a breakup happens it cannot be blamed on one person alone. But since shes the one who left me i know that it was mostly my fault. Fast forward 3 months... i feel a lot better. I got to the gym (taekwondo), go out with my friends, have fun but i still think of her everyday... now come june or may i will most likely see her since im going back to college and we're gonna be in the same school. Im worried that if i see her with her ex, i would not be strong enough. Im worried that if i see her all these hardwork will be for nothing and i might breAkdown p again. What should i do? How should i prepare myself emotionally when i see her or them together? pls help. Thoughts and advice will be greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Infnitysign Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 The best thing to do is befriend her current boyfriend and this will show you are a reasonable and mature man. Don't ignore him and don't be rude or emotional about it when you see them together. Link to post Share on other sites
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