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Had to *slightly* break NC


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mtnbiker3000

Well, if you read my recent posts you know I've been getting several messages from the ex over the last couple of days (first in almost 4 weeks since starting NC) regarding some shared finances and assets that were finally coming to a close (thank god!!). She also made some comment about her thinking that I blocked her on my cell since I hadn't responded. So I sent a quick message addressing the financial stuff and the following statement regarding my disappearance:

 

BTW - I did not block you from texting my cell. I am just trying to strictly limit all contact right now, as this is something I need to do for myself… OK?

 

Will now go completely NC again, and doubt I will even ever here from her again. Just wondering what you think? Wuss move? Already sent, so damage is done.

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ThatJustHappened

It wouldn't have been so bad if you hadn't put 'ok?' at the end. You were clearly looking for a response with that.

 

If an ex absolutely won't let up, I think it's ok to let them know you want NC.

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It wouldn't have been so bad if you hadn't put 'ok?' at the end. You were clearly looking for a response with that.

 

If an ex absolutely won't let up, I think it's ok to let them know you want NC.

 

Yeah, I saw that and now realize that was a mistake. Hopefully it doesn't read to badly... I really don't care if she responds or not. It was more just a figure of speech :laugh:

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