msalek89 Posted March 7, 2013 Share Posted March 7, 2013 (edited) Hey everyone. I will start by saying that I feel amazing. About two weeks ago I blocked my ex number. I didn’t hear from him until last night that he text me from his number around 11:30pm. My first impressions was how can he text me if I blocked his number? Long story short, you can’t block a person’s number on an iPhone if your iMessage is turned on. I didn’t know that but it’s off now so no worries . He usually texts me once a week late at night and I usually don’t answer because I am sleeping but this time I was awake. The conversation went like this: Him: Hello Me: Hey Him: How are you? Him: u busy? Me: Pretty good and you? Me: No Him: Want to chill? Me: No Him: Why? Me: Because I don’t feel like it Me: Plus I am comfortable in my bed Him: Just for a little Me: No Me: Maybe some other time Him: We can watch a movie Me: No Me: I work tomorrow Him: Me two Me: Talk to you some other time Me: Good night He didn’t reply after that. Knowing him he was probably aggregated and pissed off because I know he didn’t expect that answer from me. Honestly guys, I know that all he wanted was sex because that is what we have been doing the times that we have seen each other. I don’t need that hurting in my life. This BU has made me stronger and thought me to love myself over anybody else. I am nobody’s toy. That is why I refuse to put myself in a position like that again. I can tell you that for the first time since the 3 months of the BU, last night was the night that I slept the best. I’ve been doing so many things for myself that he is rarely on my mind and I don’t really miss him at all. I was not trying to be strong in my text, I was texting him what I felt and that’s when I realized that I am at another level of this BU and I honestly feel free. Have a great day ya’ll . Edited March 7, 2013 by msalek89 3 Link to post Share on other sites
destroyed4sho Posted March 7, 2013 Share Posted March 7, 2013 Yeah, good job, you sounded like you no longer give a crap. Maybe next step is complete NC. Btw, I severly hate your ex. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author msalek89 Posted March 7, 2013 Author Share Posted March 7, 2013 You are right... and trust me if you knew everything in detail you would hate him even more lol Link to post Share on other sites
CaliBabe Posted March 7, 2013 Share Posted March 7, 2013 I was so happy to read this. I felt particularly crappy this morning and this was great inspiration for me, thanks for sharing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author msalek89 Posted March 7, 2013 Author Share Posted March 7, 2013 You are welcome, I am glad that my post help Link to post Share on other sites
JourneyLady Posted March 7, 2013 Share Posted March 7, 2013 Go you! Yeah, I am feeling pretty good on NC too. Turned out a long-time male acquaintance stepped in to cheer me up and cheer me on, and it >feels< like we may have a good thing going. He's a real trueheart who has also been hurt in the past. I am a bit amazed to have this happen so soon. A bit more and no contact won't even matter! The ex-bf wasn't even this supportive at his best of times! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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