BiancaLDN Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 Spoke to her today - she told me that the reason we can be friends but we don't talk everyday is because she would feel uncomfortable talking to someone who has feelings for her, everyday. I am now cut up, drinking on the sofa, crying - I'm a mess, basically. I can't see how things are ever going to get better - I've given up hope. I'm 28, and actually wanted to settle down with this person, eventually. I can't help thinking that I ****ed up somewhere, as I'm always getting dumped, and am starting to think it must be ME. Link to post Share on other sites
iouaname Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 My ex told me that he wanted to stay "really good friends." His definition of that? Talking to me "not every day" about "shallow things." I'm sorry that you're feeling this way It might be better that you've given up hope, because maybe at least you'll start healing a little quicker? Link to post Share on other sites
Author BiancaLDN Posted January 25, 2013 Author Share Posted January 25, 2013 Maybe it will help. I often wonder what goes through the dumper's minds, sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
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