h-e-l-p Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Im going to meet up with my ex today its been a couple of weeks which we agreed on meeting after breaking up but she seems to be being so blunt with me so already preparing for the worse, How shall I be towards her ?? What should I say if I love her(obviously I should not say this as it may push her away more) , I actually dont have a clue so any help is appreciated ?? My previous thread explains what actually happened before all this. Thank you Link to post Share on other sites
TopCat22 Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 What do you want out of this meeting? are you trying to reconcile? Link to post Share on other sites
Author h-e-l-p Posted October 14, 2012 Author Share Posted October 14, 2012 Yes I do want her back but I dont want to push or force her in any way.;-) Link to post Share on other sites
ReadMyThread Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Im going to meet up with my ex today its been a couple of weeks which we agreed on meeting after breaking up but she seems to be being so blunt with me so already preparing for the worse, How shall I be towards her ?? What should I say if I love her(obviously I should not say this as it may push her away more) , I actually dont have a clue so any help is appreciated ?? My previous thread explains what actually happened before all this. Thank you You say, "look B****. You either want me or you don't. Bang bang." IF she doesn't want you you move on lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Tiera D Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 advice : play it cool but be friendly,invite her to talk but never reveal your goal,keep the conversation short but emotional..hopefully u have been improving yourself lately..although i doubt its enough TD 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lovecash Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I dont think 2 weeks is enough time for you to go through the grieving process and learn about yourself. Ive been 1 month NC, and the first 2 weeks I was in so much pain that I dont know what I was thinking. Weeks 2-4 I started getting a lot more perspective about myself and things that I need to work on to make ME better. I think you will have better chance if you ever want to get back with her if you say you are not ready to see her yet and actually take time away from her to see what you want with her and yourself. In the 2 weeks you have probably just been obsessing about this meeting and not being able to work on yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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