My heartbreak, My success. Getting over my ex start to finish.

[AlexanderJames]

Hey everyone hope we're doing well.

 

I've decided to put an end to talking about my ex and my journey on this forum. No more threads to be posted about her. This is mostly because this forum gives me a doorway in which to open up and discuss my ex and past relationship. Which is great! It's the best when it comes to dealing with the confusion and pain that comes with a breakup. And I'm so glad I joined up and had the opportunity to share my story with all of you wonderful people!

 

However, I've found that as great as this forum has been with helping me, and many others. There does come a time where you reach the point in your recovery where you no longer feel the need or the want to discuss lovers past and memories shared. I've noticed that coming on here allows a few lingering memories to circle around and not leave. To be blunt Im just over talking about her. Which is a good thing dont get me wrong!

 

So in order to finally and 100% close the book on this chapter passed I'm pretty much considering myself fully healed and back on track. And do not intend to post any more threads about when / if she ever breaks NC. Or anything of the like. Because I dont care what she does anymore. It's irrelevant to my life now. So yay me I will stay on here and give people advice dont worry. This is just an end to MY story.

 

 

ANYWAY I've decided to post every thread I posted in regards to her breakup here in one thread. Kind of like an archive. That way people can see what I did and how I felt from start to finish. My ups and my downs. But also if i find myself going through another rough breakup I can come here and have it all right infront of me, from my own experiences.

 

Read it, dont read it. But hopefully it helps people on here.

 

The first ever post. Its a long one, goes into detail about the events leading up to me finding this website.

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/330713-lesser-two-evils

During NC

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/331427-nc-getting-tough-people-need-tell-me-im-idiot-something

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/331666-what-do-people-think

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/331841-what-waste-time

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/331927-alexanders-latest-challenge-ncs-apparent-impact-his-ex

My little self help guide.

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/331820-hope-hopeless-my-guide-moving

My low points

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332066-im-having-bad-day-happens-us-all

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332503-dear-all-ls-users-3-a

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332613-alexanderjames-still-moving-forward-sort

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332754-there-meaning-here

 

Breaking NC and the after affects.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332807-youre-kidding-right-dafuq

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332751-hope-im-not-going-backwards-here

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332936-alexander-broke-nc-last-night-my-feelings-today

The eye opener

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/333061-thank-you-loveshack

 

There you go, my journey from start to finish. And although it wasn't a long one because I had so much support and I had taught myself many lessons through previous heartaches, I found many users on here could relate to my experiences and different stages of happy and sad that I experienced. Hopefully this sheds some light on what you all have to prepare for, and the amazing feelings you have to look forward to when you reach the goal.

 

Much love.

Alex

Edited June 29, 2012 by AlexanderJames