timzelug Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 Woke up this week to a note that said she is not in love with me and was never attracted to me...after 3 years of living together. I don't know how we went from talking about marriage and kids to waking up one morning and she is gone. I don't know where to begin, or even if i want to try again. It seems so far off to imagine finding someone new and building a life together all over again... too much work. How long am I permitted to just sulk in bed before I feel like doing anything again? No tv, hobbies, or games have any interest, and i have no desire to eat anything. Everything she left is too hard to look at so i've tried to start boxing up anything that has memories attached to it. Sorry for rambling on, i'm just sort of thinking aloud. Link to post Share on other sites
Daremo_06 Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 try this site... http://al.turtlecounseling.com/blog/_archives/2005/3/8/410458.html It will help you at least understand somethings, and perhaps following his steps will bring her back. Also look at what Jordjones said at the end of my thread here.. it resonated for me anyways. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t299284/ Hang in there.. i was where you are now about 6 weeks ago. Sucks MAJOR but you will live through it. Link to post Share on other sites
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