suddendumpee Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Anything to stop these haunting thoughts of our past! Surely there is a push button shocking device I can attach to my sack! haha. Link to post Share on other sites
500daysofsummer Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 yeah a six pack of beer should do it Link to post Share on other sites
Author suddendumpee Posted January 13, 2011 Author Share Posted January 13, 2011 I have actually been abstaining from alcohol. It usually makes me feel more depressed and focus even more on how ****ty things have become. I never understood how people can "drink their sorrows away" Always makes me feel more sorry. To each their own though. Link to post Share on other sites
LifeIsGreat Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 You have heard it before..... it just takes time. While time is passing, be sure that your self talk is positive. Think about what you will do differently the next time, and think about picking a better match next time. When I go through this, I just embrace it. Think about how crappy you feel when you get the flu. While you're suffering, you remember how there were other times you got sick but with some time got back to normal again. That's how I deal with it. I know it hurts (very badly), but I also know that in time I will feel better. In the meantime (like when you have the flu), give yourself permission to feel bad and don't fight it so hard. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Are you confirming to me what women have suspected for a long time? That your brains are in your "trouser furnishings"....?? I'm sorry, I don't know what measure you'll put into place - but can we get photos?? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 You know, this idea could really sell. In fact I think it already does, did you try Ann Summers? Link to post Share on other sites
melenkurion Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 hah! I think I need one of these... Link to post Share on other sites
Rose T Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 I have actually been abstaining from alcohol. It usually makes me feel more depressed and focus even more on how ****ty things have become. I never understood how people can "drink their sorrows away" Always makes me feel more sorry. To each their own though. Same for me. I always used to enjoy a bottle of wine with my ex - we did lots of wine tasting events together as well. Now I can't even pop a cork without feeling sad. When I go out I manage about two drinks and then have to stop to keep my head in the right place... THIS TOO SHALL PASS Link to post Share on other sites
melenkurion Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 I have actually been abstaining from alcohol. It usually makes me feel more depressed and focus even more on how ****ty things have become.I've had to do that, really. Plus there is a big chance I'd send an abusive text to my ex or the Other Guy if my inhibitions are lowered. Link to post Share on other sites
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