Red leaves Posted September 5, 2010 Share Posted September 5, 2010 Should the dumpee tell the dumper that he does not want any contact or let her know only after she tries to contact? What are the pros and cons? Link to post Share on other sites
mindovermatter3 Posted September 5, 2010 Share Posted September 5, 2010 Typically both ppl should know the deal. it may b a good idea to tell ur x about NC. Link to post Share on other sites
Trovador Posted September 5, 2010 Share Posted September 5, 2010 Hello, first post here too... Well, in my case neither option has served a well defined purpose, so I am all for the "vanishing act", not saying anything, just going away... Once, when I told my ex I´d rather expect her not to call me, she said it was very childish, both the "giving notice" and NC itself... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Red leaves Posted September 6, 2010 Author Share Posted September 6, 2010 Once, when I told my ex I´d rather expect her not to call me, she said it was very childish, both the "giving notice" and NC itself... This is your ex's problem I think. It is certainly the dumpee's right not to be contacted. Link to post Share on other sites
L3stat Posted September 6, 2010 Share Posted September 6, 2010 Why would you give notice? Hey im just letting you know im going No contact to so plz dont call or text? i dont know that sound silly i wouldnt wast my time. Link to post Share on other sites
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