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Old 31st January 2018, 5:02 PM   #31
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Considering he admitted he's at least 20 lbs more than desired, yet still gave himself an "8" for fitness should tell you something about the veracity of the rating.

Food for thought for all the guys out there: https://www.google.com/search?ei=xSl....0.j3lXx1U9pM0
What should an "8" for fitness be to you? Maybe for the poster it means he's "in shape" but just not "cut" like a gym rat would be. It's very subjective.
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Old 31st January 2018, 5:10 PM   #32
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So grooming I am 10 out of 10. Dress style a 10. Fitness. I am about an 8.
I don't know if I have ever encountered a man who I would give a 10/10 on grooming and dress.

And I used to live in Los Angeles.

Some have been close, but they had personal shoppers, nationally renowned stylist, regular professional manicures etc. Maintaining that level takes a bunch of cash and time. (and honestly, I don't want a man who spends more time and money on clothes and grooming than I do!)
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Old 31st January 2018, 5:16 PM   #33
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Beats the hell out of me. I think I'm a bit of a mutt, but my wife is a total babe, so I'd have to give myself at least a 6 based on her willingness to marry me in the first place.
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Old 31st January 2018, 5:18 PM   #34
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Beats the hell out of me. I think I'm a bit of a mutt, but my wife is a total babe, so I'd have to give myself at least a 6 based on her willingness to marry me in the first place.
no, you're higher than a 6 GT
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Old 31st January 2018, 5:22 PM   #35
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no, you're higher than a 6 GT

This is why you're my friend, Alpha. But seriously, you've seen pictures of my wife and I; you know what I'm talking about.
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Old 31st January 2018, 5:37 PM   #36
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Old 31st January 2018, 5:39 PM   #37
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What should an "8" for fitness be to you? Maybe for the poster it means he's "in shape" but just not "cut" like a gym rat would be. It's very subjective.
I guess it can be subjective if he considers "20 pounds overweight" to be "in shape." It doesn't make a whole lot of sense to be, but to each their own. In my book, if 10 is Greek god perfection, 5 is average, 1 is morbid obesity, then an 8 is at least "impressively cut," with maybe an area lacking some definition at worst. I have a hard time buying that someone could have that much weight to shed and still be rated so high. Any obvious shortcoming (20 extra pounds more than qualifies) would preclude anyone from the 8-10 range in my eyes. Twenty pounds of unwanted mass sounds average (5) at best to me.

Would you honestly consider someone with that much excess weight to be closer to a Greek god than to average? It doesn't sound right, but that's just me.

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Old 31st January 2018, 5:45 PM   #38
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Lets detail the scale.

So when someone says they are a 5/6/7/8/9/10. What image do you get from either a man or woman.

5= Plain.
6=Spruced up
7= Rock and Roll
8= CW Super hero shows
9= James Bond/Anglina Jolie/Denzel
10= Olympic level Athlete

Thats what comes to mind. I am inbetween a 7 and 8.
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Old 31st January 2018, 6:03 PM   #39
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Basil I would agree with you. Have you ever seen

The Human Face BBC Documentry With John Clees and Elizabeth Hurley.

I am a big face person. That is the one thing that I focus on besides personality when I date.
I looked into that and ended up watching it halfway through.

Now I'm looking for something to measure my face with.
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Old 31st January 2018, 6:03 PM   #40
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Why on Earth would you ever want to rate yourself?? It's pointless enough rating other people.
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Old 31st January 2018, 6:06 PM   #41
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No idea but several women in recent years have told me I am good looking, handsome, hot and kind of tempting, a honey pot, hunkapotamus, etc.

I guess I'm not ugly but I sometimes got the impression that these women didn't really care that much about looks and were just trying to trick me into bed for some unknown reason.

Maybe it's the twinkle in the eye, disarming quick wit, knowledge of the world, economic status, or even my love of dancing. One thing is sure. It's not my sense of style or the car I drive.
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Old 31st January 2018, 6:14 PM   #42
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Lets detail the scale.

So when someone says they are a 5/6/7/8/9/10. What image do you get from either a man or woman.

5= Plain.
6=Spruced up
7= Rock and Roll
8= CW Super hero shows
9= James Bond/Anglina Jolie/Denzel
10= Olympic level Athlete

Thats what comes to mind. I am inbetween a 7 and 8.
I see an error. CW super hero shows = 2.

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Old 31st January 2018, 6:20 PM   #43
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I don't focus on face when I've dated because physical beauty isn't important to me in a partner.

But for raw considerations of attractiveness, facial attractiveness is really high in the numbers.
I am more of a hips, boobs, and/or butt guy myself. A pretty face is nice though.
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Old 31st January 2018, 6:21 PM   #44
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I am more of a hips, boobs, and/or butt guy myself. A pretty face is nice though.
legs and feet for me
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Old 31st January 2018, 6:24 PM   #45
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I just want her to laugh at my jokes. Looking like a female is also a huge plus.
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