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Old 29th January 2018, 5:24 PM   #1
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McDonald’s worker

Really like this woman at McD but don’t know how go about speaking to her!
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Old 29th January 2018, 6:01 PM   #2
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Old 29th January 2018, 6:03 PM   #3
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Go when it's slow there and just say hi and then introduce yourself but be discreet. She probably isn't allowed to be socializing with customers. So introduce yourself, see if she introduces herself back. Be friendly and if she seems to enjoy your visits more than the usual chirpy McDonald's way, then slip her your phone number on a note that says, Hope you'll text me!
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Old 29th January 2018, 6:17 PM   #4
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ask her if she likes pickles and if she says yea ask if she wants you to show her yours. if she says no then you know she's not into dudes and can stop worrying about her
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Old 29th January 2018, 6:27 PM   #5
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You need to become a regular there. So that you don't gain a bunch of weight, I suggest being careful what you order though. Anyway, stop in that same McDonald's often. Always go wherever and whenever you see her the most. If she works the drive-thru in the evenings, go then. Don't try to hit on her, don't ask her name, and don't introduce yourself. Just be happy, friendly, confident, and see if she notices you. Say something witty or funny but don't try to talk to her long as she is likely busy. Then, sit back and look for any signs that she might be interested in you. Does she make frequent eye contact? Does she smile at you? Does she seem to remember you? That's what you want to look for. If she seems interested in you, that's when you can make some kind of move.
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Old 29th January 2018, 6:40 PM   #6
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Does she make frequent eye contact? Does she smile at you? Does she seem to remember you? That's what you want to look for.
I like your style Enigma, but this is customer service 101. It's how a good server will treat all customers. Friendly servers are particularly good at making all customers feel good about the interaction.

It's tricky when good customer service and attraction looks the same. I think it takes a little skill to figure out the difference.
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Old 29th January 2018, 6:43 PM   #7
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I like your style Enigma, but this is customer service 101. It's how a good server will treat all customers. Friendly servers are particularly good at making all customers feel good about the interaction.

It's tricky when good customer service and attraction looks the same. I think it takes a little skill to figure out the difference.
I would agree with you if the OP did not say he was eyeing a girl at McDonald's. I don't know about the spot near you, but you won't get that kind of service on the regular at any of the chains near me.

Thanks for the compliment. This is probably my number 2 way to get dates. So easy.
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Old 29th January 2018, 7:14 PM   #8
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At a minimum do become a regular. Always go her line. Do try to go when it's slow.


Make banal small talk. The weather is a good subject.


After you do that for a while, ask if she ever goes on break. See if you can spend a few minutes with her then. If all goes well you should be able to leave that conversation with a phone # so you can stop disrupting her work day.
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Old 29th January 2018, 7:50 PM   #9
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I would agree with you if the OP did not say he was eyeing a girl at McDonald's. I don't know about the spot near you, but you won't get that kind of service on the regular at any of the chains near me.

Thanks for the compliment. This is probably my number 2 way to get dates. So easy.
Good point. I'm comparing small chains with McDonalds.
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Old 29th January 2018, 9:37 PM   #10
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Yeah I always go to her and I think she caught me checking her out though!
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