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Old 19th October 2017, 1:57 PM   #31
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Cobra is probably talking about Single fathers paying through the roof for their kids and not being able to see them.

I am single and childless. I am going to keep it that way, until a great woman convinces me otherwise.
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Old 19th October 2017, 3:31 PM   #32
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My "type" has evolved over the years as well.

Physically, I used to focus on blondes or redheads with an athletic or slim build. But, now, I have learned not to dial in on physical attributes as much and am really only turned off by over-weight women. I love curves but not obesity.. I can find a few physical attributes in a woman that light a spark in me and that's been good enough.

Emotionally, I used to be drawn towards incredibly independent and strong willed women. Unfortunately, many of the women that I met with this type of personality were incredibly high-maintenance. And, they were also very extroverted which I am not so it was difficult to find things we enjoyed doing together. I enjoy big social functions here and there but you won't catch me out every weekend..

I swung the other way and dated many introverted women but I had a hard time with that as many of them were kind of clingy and we also had a hard time finding things to do together. Again, the pendulum swung and they rarely wanted to leave the house other than to go to dinner or a movie.

So, now I have learned to find a middle ground; I'm attracted to extroverted introverts (like me) who enjoy a balance between going out and staying in. They also need to be independent enough to give me my alone time.

And, I am absolutely turned off by women who aren't terribly bright and aren't well spoken. It basically only takes one "hru?" text for me to lose interest.
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Old 19th October 2017, 10:32 PM   #33
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I like short girls with cute faces. Bonus if she's a redhead, but since redheads are hard to find then it's not really that big of a deal lol. Any race is fine but i'm mostly attracted to white girls and i'm the least attracted to black girls.

The reason I like short girls is because i'm a pretty short guy myself so it's what i'm most comfortable with. I could date a girl a couple inches taller than me but if she were taller than 5 ft 5, then we would really have to be compatible if I would consider dating.

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Old 20th October 2017, 1:57 AM   #34
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My ex was a redhead. It was hard to let it go suprficially.
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Old 20th October 2017, 3:31 AM   #35
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For me its the intangible and dare I say it intelligence and intellectual ability really grab my attention, to an extent more than physical appearance but combine the above mentioned attributes with a pretty face and for me that's a win. If she makes me think and challenges me that's also extremely attractive to me.


Yes, I do like tall, athletic brunettes, I have been lucky enough to go out with a few incredibly pretty ladies and I wont lie there is something superficially nice about walking into a room with someone and heads turn.
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Old 20th October 2017, 7:28 AM   #36
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I like short girls with cute faces. Bonus if she's a redhead, but since redheads are hard to find then it's not really that big of a deal lol. Any race is fine but i'm mostly attracted to white girls and i'm the least attracted to black girls.

The reason I like short girls is because i'm a pretty short guy myself so it's what i'm most comfortable with. I could date a girl a couple inches taller than me but if she were taller than 5 ft 5, then we would really have to be compatible if I would consider dating.
Sounds like Iím your type lol
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Old 20th October 2017, 11:28 AM   #37
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Physically, I am all over the map. I don't have a strong preference for any physical type. I've dated women of many races and body types.

On the other side, mentally I do have a type. A strong, independent woman who doesn't actually need me but wants to be with me is super attractive. I want a partner in life.
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Old 9th November 2017, 7:46 AM   #38
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Personality 75% Physique 25%

To me, her brain is the most sexy thing.

I dont care if shes blond, brunette, tall or small, dont care about eye color. If shes not the personality i want, i dont care if shes the hottest woman in the world.
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Old 9th November 2017, 3:28 PM   #39
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Women do seem to have more of a strict type they won't go away from then men.

I'm all over the map. I like big asses but it's not a deal breaker lol
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Old 10th November 2017, 2:51 AM   #40
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I like being babied and fussed over. I love women with baby faces. I like expressive faces. Body type not too heavy. Not to lean. I am more a face guy.
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Old 10th November 2017, 6:10 AM   #41
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I have resolved not to waver from my type for as long as I can, even if that means dating more rarely. Quality>Quantity
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Old 10th November 2017, 6:45 AM   #42
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I love tall ladies. Those long, shapely legs are just beyond sexy.

Really short, petite women are great. You can do so many things with them in the bedroom since it's easy to move them around.

Redheads are gorgeous. So are blondes. Black haired girls, especially with pale skin...yummy.

Few things are sexier than a shapely butt.

I like boobs. Small boobs, big boobs, pretty much all boobs.

I like those tiny, waifish, Mila Jovovich type ladies. Sexy. Atheltic ladies are also sexy. So are girls with a few extra pounds, especially if those few extra pounds gravitate towards hip/butt/boobs.

Ok, I just really love women. If not for my obsession for the ladies, I would have conquered the world by now.
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Old 11th November 2017, 2:40 PM   #43
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I have resolved not to waver from my type for as long as I can, even if that means dating more rarely. Quality>Quantity
Cookiedough whats your type?n Looks/personality.
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Old 11th November 2017, 3:00 PM   #44
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I have resolved not to waver from my type for as long as I can, even if that means dating more rarely. Quality>Quantity
I feel that way too. But I am also trying get my life together a bit before trying to date seriously. I wish you luck cookies!
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Old 17th November 2017, 3:45 AM   #45
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I don't set out to find this type. It just happens and my bf and exes have a certain way.
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