stixx Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 To keep it short. Theres a woman in my building. Great gal. At age 60 I thought she wasnt even close that age(mid 50s maybe - I like older women). Great personality and someone you just wanna grab and be cozy with. ...so we talked today as I ran into her outside. Heres the goof....She is the mom of the girl(age 32) downstairs that I chat with. I never knew it, and I dont mind she has a kid. Wanted to ask that gal out..........eeeeeesh. Mom wants a date, and I have no idea about her daughter. This is messed up and I think I have to give this up to continue. I have to live with these women and thats the goofy part. Mom and me have a date in a few days(maybe). This is about the most flakey thing I ever experienced. Help! Link to post Share on other sites
Nowty V Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 Do the mum.. keep it on the low down, at her age she won't want a full time man. When the opportunity arises, do the daughter. it's gotta be done. Link to post Share on other sites
Author stixx Posted August 20, 2017 Author Share Posted August 20, 2017 Do the mum.. keep it on the low down, at her age she won't want a full time man. When the opportunity arises, do the daughter. it's gotta be done. I never had intention of "doing the mum". Just a date. Nothing more. She lives in my building. I dont just "do" women. Im a respectful guy and dont date females just to "do it"...and I have to live with person even though she is a couple floors down from me. I been flirting with this women for about 8 months now, and her daughter for over a year++. This is a bit messed up. I thought it was a good thing just for basic companionship. Mom and Daughter thing seems a bit goofy. To much comfort for me, even to joke with online. I think I might have to let this go....But I already been asking mom if she wants to go to a game and she really likes ball. Thats cool, but this situation is a nut game for a guy I think. No idea. never been in this situation before. Link to post Share on other sites
HarmonyDriven Posted August 21, 2017 Share Posted August 21, 2017 This scenario vaguely reminds me of the 2003 movie, Something's Gotta Give..... IMO, depending on how big your building is, what if the date goes south.....might be super awkward if you see mum and daughter....? Might be ok if you run into them once in awhile, but seeing them daily.....hmmmm....yikes. Kinda like dating a co-worker.... Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 21, 2017 Share Posted August 21, 2017 You have no chance with the 32 year old, who has probably been being nice to her because she thinks her mother likes you. So now just tell the 32 year old "Your mom's a great gal." Her mom will let her know you're going out, and you will have declared where your affections lie. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author stixx Posted August 25, 2017 Author Share Posted August 25, 2017 You have no chance with the 32 year old, who has probably been being nice to her because she thinks her mother likes you. So now just tell the 32 year old "Your mom's a great gal." Her mom will let her know you're going out, and you will have declared where your affections lie. Hate to break your bubble, but women mainly come to me. I just wanted to hang out with mom because I dont want sex. The daughter always comes up to me and yaps like a babble idiot. I actually brought them BOTH out. The mother is a drug addict which is odd for a woman that age. Plus she is about on every med on the planet. The daughter is a recovering crack head thus the reason she lives with mom and she is a Bi-Polar / Borderline train wreck. It was worth a few bucks and a meal to find out how they interact with each other and me. WOW! I never seem 2 loons together like that ever,,,not even mother and daughter. I was laughing inside the whole time. No Sir!!!! I wont go near both of them from here out. Nutty women are not my thing and they are poor as hell. I wont date a poor woman. Poor means no edumacation...No edumacation means no job, and no money in the bank, so they are not anything I would ever get close to. Sorry. I will never date a woman that cant pull her own. Never happen...and I wont pay all the time. I like my money just where it is.... In the bank! Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 25, 2017 Share Posted August 25, 2017 Well, they both turned out to be nutballs, so you better fine-tune your radar, Bud. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted August 25, 2017 Share Posted August 25, 2017 Sounds like a nice place you live at. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted August 26, 2017 Share Posted August 26, 2017 (edited) Duuuuude....you're giving new meaning to the expression "keeping it in the family"... If you really, *really*, are attracted to the daughter and do not mind passing the chance to date her mom, then ask the daughter out. I mean, you are single, far as you know the daughter is single, so you don't owe it to anyone to take a pass. Life is too short not to go for dating whom you really want to date. This situation does sound like it could get messy very quickly though. Unless you are *that* attracted to the daughter I'd vote for go for someone else. ETA Saw your last post. Looks like none of the above it is... Edited August 26, 2017 by Imajerk17 Link to post Share on other sites
healing light Posted August 26, 2017 Share Posted August 26, 2017 I actually brought them BOTH out. The mother is a drug addict which is odd for a woman that age. Plus she is about on every med on the planet. The daughter is a recovering crack head thus the reason she lives with mom and she is a Bi-Polar / Borderline train wreck. And I'm guessing this just came up in a pass-the-butter tone on the first venture out? Haha. Link to post Share on other sites
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