theendiscoming Posted July 24, 2016 Share Posted July 24, 2016 (edited) will i get in trouble for approaching too many girls in one day? because i will not care countless rejection. i cannot imagine how to get woman after the end, my college status end in august. Edited July 24, 2016 by theendiscoming Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 24, 2016 Share Posted July 24, 2016 No, you won't get in trouble. But it's very likely you will end up as being a topic of conversation and called "the creepy guy who approaches all women". "OMG, he asked me out today...and you yesterday....and the chick down the hall yesterday too" Not trying to be rude, but it will get to the point that no women will consider you because you have a reputation for being totally indiscriminate in your approaches. Link to post Share on other sites
Author theendiscoming Posted July 24, 2016 Author Share Posted July 24, 2016 (edited) will most rejections happen because they are not single? Edited July 25, 2016 by theendiscoming Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 Some rejections will happen because they aren't single. Some will happen because they don't like your approach. Or they don't want a boyfriend at all. If I was single, I'd never give my number to a random guy who comes up and asks me out. (Is this what you're doing?) I'd first need to be having a conversation with him and make a little connection before he asks me out. In short, I have to have some idea that I actually want to spend time with him. Link to post Share on other sites
redbaron007 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 (edited) ... i cannot imagine how to get woman after the end, my college status end in august. What the heck does this even mean - are you a foreign student leaving the country and want a US GF experience to brag at home, or do you think women will vanish from the face of the planet after college? Or, as your name suggests, the world will end, and you are desperate to get laid before it's all over? Edited July 25, 2016 by redbaron007 Link to post Share on other sites
Author theendiscoming Posted August 5, 2016 Author Share Posted August 5, 2016 do you think women will vanish from the face of the planet after college? I've never had dating in my life. They will vanish from "my world (my life)" after college. I see that is my end. I don't ask phone number without conversation. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted August 5, 2016 Share Posted August 5, 2016 Why don't you think you can't approach girls after you leave college? There are just as many females "in the real world" as there are on a campus.... Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted August 6, 2016 Share Posted August 6, 2016 will most rejections happen because they are not single? Most will happen for a variety of reasons that are way more complex than you figure them to be. Long story short, if you're the kind of guy who: 1). feels the need to "approach" (which gives a woman power over you) rather than picking from those with whom there's mutual attraction 2). indiscriminately "approaches" anything female (which advertises the fact that all previous women who notice this didn't find you appealing, and that you have little to no appreciation for someone's individuality) 3). can't get a woman's attention any other way but somehow thinks he has the ability to appeal to her enough in one conversation to get her to go out with him 4). thinks approaching women randomly will be affective despite the fact that most people on Earth don't find each other attractive 4). thinks this is actually a good idea despite the obvious problems in 1-4, then you likely have very poor judgment and/or a poor understanding of a lot of the fundamentals of attraction, etiquette, dating culture, etc and you'll be seen as weird, awkward, creepy, or worse. If you want to make it easier on yourself, use Tinder or Bumble. Those aps cut through a lot of the crap and will pair you with people who do want to go out with you rather than make you go through a whole song and dance with women who don't. i cannot imagine how to get woman after the end, my college status end in august. College is great but afterwards you'll have a job, disposable income, and a whole city worth of women to meet. Life after college is a whole new, exciting, much bigger opportunity. It's far from over. I suggest you hold off on (or at least rethink) the current plan and reassess your strategy once the wheels are turning with your life after college. Best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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