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notyouraveragebabe

So I went back online dating and have been idle for 2 months because I haven't found a profile I liked. Finally, a miracle happens and a very interesting guy came along. We been texting back and forth and he hadn't really asked me out on a date, so I thought he wasn't that interested. Then I get another good catch who emails me and he is really interested calling me and texting every day asking to hang out, but I just wasn't that into him. I never went on a date with him. To be honest I was waiting on the first guy to ask me out. So i browsed around on their public Instagram, didn't add them, and noticed THEY ARE FRIENDS!!! Like best friends, since kids!! First guy finally called yesterday and asked me on a date. We both like to ride bikes, so he asked to go on a bike ride. Since we live 30 miles apart, we agreed to meet in the middle. He says he can store the bikes in his friends house who lives on the beach. Well guess what thats the same friend who I am also talking to online. I stopped talking to him immediately after I found out, but he still calls me.

 

Do you guys think I should mention anything or just go with the flow? I hope this doesn't ruin my chance, because I really like first guy.

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StalwartMind

What if they both organized to contact you since they do know each other? It's not unlikely to think they know, regardless if the one is still calling you. Either way it's your so life I don't see the dilemma, well I do but you are all adults so hopefully the one you aren't interested in will understand. Seems illogical to stop now that you got this far, but then again I'm not one to "multi-date or multi-explore" it has the potential to create...situations like this. I would encourage you to commit to what you started, but it's naturally your choice.

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Carry on with what you're doing but stick to the one you like, don't flit around between them as that could just cause more issues. as long as you be honest and upfront with your intentions you should be fine.

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LOL yes tell him. Just get it out there because you never went out with the second guy.

 

One of my good friends and I were on a dating site at the same time. We absolutely would share which guys approached and were talking to us both at the same time (never telling the guys of course). It was fine until he'd ask us both out and then he would get read the riot act.

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