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I can't get over why this guy stop talking to me! So I went online dating. Exchanged number with this hot firefighter who seems really busy. We started chatting and he wanted to talk on the phone, but labor day weekend I went on a trip with my girls. We haven't even gone on a date yet. I added him on snapchat, sent him some selfies and he replied "hot, looking good." We continued to text throughout the day.

 

Then I got drunk out and snapped stories of us playing flip cup with me flipping the cup with my butt. Most people thought it was funny. I had clothes on, nothing dirty. I was just being silly. He responded to it saying "skills." I got back from my trip and texted him and haven't heard from him for 2 days. I sent him another selfie through snapchat and he responded "you're so pretty." But I don't know why he hasn't even text me back. I'm not going to text him again.

 

Do you guys think, me being silly drunk turned him off? If he is so sensitive to me having fun then maybe not the guy for me. He is 31 and I'm 29.

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It was probably funny in context because you had people there laughing at and with you.

 

As a photograph to someone you hadn't even met yet, it probably came across as crass. It would make me wonder if this was your standard behavior and if all I had to look forward to - when it comes to being in a relationship or a long-term girlfriend - is this is who she is all the time and a continual partier?

 

I'd probably distance myself from you too....

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I can't get over why this guy stop talking to me! So I went online dating. Exchanged number with this hot firefighter who seems really busy. We started chatting and he wanted to talk on the phone, but labor day weekend I went on a trip with my girls. We haven't even gone on a date yet. I added him on snapchat, sent him some selfies and he replied "hot, looking good." We continued to text throughout the day.

 

Then I got drunk out and snapped stories of us playing flip cup with me flipping the cup with my butt. Most people thought it was funny. I had clothes on, nothing dirty. I was just being silly. He responded to it saying "skills." I got back from my trip and texted him and haven't heard from him for 2 days. I sent him another selfie through snapchat and he responded "you're so pretty." But I don't know why he hasn't even text me back. I'm not going to text him again.

 

Do you guys think, me being silly drunk turned him off? If he is so sensitive to me having fun then maybe not the guy for me. He is 31 and I'm 29.

 

Who knows? Whatever the reason, he lost interest.

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It was probably funny in context because you had people there laughing at and with you.

 

As a photograph to someone you hadn't even met yet, it probably came across as crass. It would make me wonder if this was your standard behavior and if all I had to look forward to - when it comes to being in a relationship or a long-term girlfriend - is this is who she is all the time and a continual partier?

 

I'd probably distance myself from you too....

 

Lesson learned! He doesn't know me well and to see me out having fun early on he may have not like it. In the future, no snapchats to guys I have not met.

 

I have met another guy and sent him that snapchat and he thought it was funny and still calls me. So it may come off different to everyone. That's me having fun and if he couldn't handle it early on then its probably best.

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