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Natalie1995

Ever since I can remember I have never been able to connect with people. I am a army child so as I was growing up I would move around and meet new people. I am 20 years old and haven't found anyone on the same page.

 

It has had begun to get worse with age when drink started to become a big thing with my age group. I just haven't had any interest in it. (I would do it anyway to fit in.) I think im a old soul in a young body sometimes. My idea of fun would be going out for tea and cakes or painting and I can't find anyone else who enjoys these things. With everyone I have met recently it's been drink, gossip and boys.

 

Im scared that im narcissist or something. Maybe I have some sort of superiority complex? I just want to find someone with the same interests as me so I don't feel alone anymore.

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"It's no measure of health to be well adjusted to a sick society."

 

 

Be yourself, Be unique. As uncomfortable as you find yourself in that moment, know that you will be bigger (read: more complete), and more expansive than the last. Don't struggle to fit in, just struggle to be you. There are A LOT of people around your age going through similar bouts with reality.

Keep being you :)

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La.Primavera

You are not better or worse than anyone else. You just have different interests. The good news is there are plenty of other people out there that like the things you do as well. That is why there are so many groups and clubs.

 

That is what I suggest you do. Do some research around your community and see what is on offer. You will likely find painting classes, groups where people meet up for tea parties etc.. You will meet all sorts of like minded people.

 

Try something different and enjoy yourself.

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