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2nd date follow-up


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Okay, I went out with this woman on a first date.

 

We had a great time, went to dinner, got to know each other, even spontaneously took a walk in the park. It went well overall and I walked her to car.

 

She must've thanked me multiple times for taking her out (probably around 3) and had a good time. We both hugged and parted ways.

 

During our date, we talked about certain kayaking areas in the region and where she likes to go do kayaking. I texted her the next day and asked if she'd like to go kayaking.

 

I didn't get reply for a full day, so I contacted her with a follow-up the next day...she did respond, "Good morning, <name>. How are you doing? Sounds like fun! I'm not sure when though????"

 

It appears she wrote a statement in the form of a question....so...I responded, "Well, how are you for next weekend?"

 

Been a full day and not a response.

 

I might send her a follow-up "So have you decided when you'd like to go kayaking?"

 

But I'm not sure by her response that she just made was a certainty if she wanted to see me again? I would think that "Sounds like fun!" Was "Yes, let's do it!"

 

Yes? No?

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Based upon her response if she had been free for a full daytime activity next weekend she would have said so.

She clearly hasn't time for a full day activity in the upcoming few weeks.

 

Change it down to a normal evening or lunchtime date for a couple of hours and if she wants to see you again her response to that will tell you whether she wants to see you again.

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