Sunberry Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 6-7 years to be exact? It was scary as hell (>_<). Still is. I never do because I know/have a feeling the answer is no and I'm usually right. I just decided to take the plunge with this one. Now I'm just waiting for a response. We've been talking for a couple of days and I asked him when I'm in town if we could just hang out as friends (to get to know each other). I initiated, which is also something I never do. So cheers to him either ignoring the message or him saying no. (-_-) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
empresario Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 So pessimistic...be positive! That's a great step! If he declines who cares? You're no worse off than you were. Only upside is possible. Celebrate! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 Why would you tell him "just friends" when that's not what you want at all? Now even if he wanted more, he'd assume you do not. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sunberry Posted May 7, 2015 Author Share Posted May 7, 2015 Because from what I've seen I don't think he's interested in a relationship. I'm fine with starting things out as friends and seeing where it goes from there. I think that can be clarified when we see each other. Oh yeah, he said absolutely. I was very shocked, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
devilish innocent Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 I'm glad he said yes. This is why taking risks with showing interest in somebody can be worth it. Sometimes it does pay off. I hope things go well when you see each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Lokin4AReason Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 just take it slow and enjoy yourself =0) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sunberry Posted May 8, 2015 Author Share Posted May 8, 2015 So, I'm sort of stuck at the moment. I've met him from an OLD and due to family emergency won't be able to see him for two weeks of which I exclaimed. I was wondering how I fill in the time? I asked him if he wanted my digits for later and have no idea if that was good move or not as he hasn't responded. This is just new to me so I'm confused on what to exactly do now.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sunberry Posted May 8, 2015 Author Share Posted May 8, 2015 They deactivated the account out of the blue so I guess nothing is going to happen now...at least I tried, right? =/ Link to post Share on other sites
lino Posted May 10, 2015 Share Posted May 10, 2015 Why would you tell him "just friends" when that's not what you want at all? Now even if he wanted more, he'd assume you do not. Yep. If any woman tells me anything with 'just friends' as accompanying words, then I will assume we are just friends and nothing more. Link to post Share on other sites
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