Bobbi7 Posted March 21, 2015 Share Posted March 21, 2015 I've given up on dating, of course giving up on dating sometimes has it downsides like no physical contact with anyone. I was thinking starting a f-buddy relationship. It should be easy to find-with all the dating sites available. How do people deal with this? Link to post Share on other sites
Eggplant Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Screw that. Never in a million years. I'd rather just be forever celibate. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Yes, let me introduce you to my fwb, Jacuzzi. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Screw that. Never in a million years. I'd rather just be forever celibate. I am in his club! I just go get more batteries... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 I'd love to but the thought of having a guy fall in love with me and annoying me with lovey-dovey texts all day when I just want sex scared me off. I'm with Toodaloo on the batteries... Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 I'd love to but the thought of having a guy fall in love with me and annoying me with lovey-dovey texts all day when I just want sex scared me off. I'm with Toodaloo on the batteries... I know they are great aren't they... No one calls the Royal Society for the Protection of Abused FWB's if you just shove them back in the drawer and forget about them... You don't have to feed them or clean the loo after them... They don't take up much bed space and certainly never hog the douvet... and they don't complain when you were your fluffy bed socks... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RedButton Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Sounds strange coming from a guy, but I don't think I would be comfortable with it. I don't think I could withdraw my emotions like that and 'just' have sex. I think most people couldn't do that unless they have issues anyway. If it got to a point where someone got so desperate, they have prostitutes readily available. That sounds nasty, but I would think going to a pro would be much less potential drama and hurt later right? (As someone who's had neither a prostitute or a fwb I may be wrong). Link to post Share on other sites
Frank2thepoint Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 I have not given up on dating, but for now, I just have Rosy Palm and her five sisters to keep me company. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
PaperCrane Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Celibacy here. FWB setups are messy and confusing and often act as a jackhammer (ba-dum-tiss) to the foundation of a real friendship. Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Nope. I did try it once for 3 months after splitting from my LT ex but my FWB proposed to me soon after I had ended it. He wanted to marry me on a beach. He wasn't in my life right there and then for that. He did happen to be there at the absolute right time and place to see what I dealt with the night we got together. If I wanted FWB or FB I'd do it but it wasn't my style even then if I am honest. Link to post Share on other sites
True Gent Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 I've not had sex since late 2013, am I bothered? Actually no. I'm currently going through a few first dates, so maybe my celibacy will change this year. Until it does I'm happy to wait until I'm actually in love again. It will be so worth it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MGX Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 Sounds strange coming from a guy, but I don't think I would be comfortable with it. I don't think I could withdraw my emotions like that and 'just' have sex. I think most people couldn't do that unless they have issues anyway. That's the same reason I would have. What if I start liking the girl I'm sleeping with? I don't think I could have sex without some emotional investment. If it got to a point where someone got so desperate, they have prostitutes readily available. That sounds nasty, but I would think going to a pro would be much less potential drama and hurt later right? (As someone who's had neither a prostitute or a fwb I may be wrong). A ho might have diseases from her many clients and she costs money. A **** buddy is much better. Link to post Share on other sites
krs00 Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 No obviously Link to post Share on other sites
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