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Hi all been a while since I've posted been busy with work and other stuff.

 

Well as for my dating and love life i have had a few interesting months. first thing was back in October met and made a new friend on Okcupid, this originally did start as me being interested in something more than friends, but there was no interest there and she was upfront and honest about how she felt, and we've ended up becoming really good friends instead :) met her recently for a day out and all those feelings are gone. one of those times friendzoned has worked out well for me

 

But now over the last few weeks I've met and started talking to someone new on Okcupid, she is lovely,lives nearby, same age but isn't ready for dating yet (has children and went through a bad break-up) but she has been quite forward, offering me her number and we are going to see a movie together and get pizza afterwords (her idea) and we chat all the time and doesn't ignore my compliments or charm, just glad i feel comfortable being myself.

Really interesting what could happen here or where this could go just being cautious, taking things slow and being myself :)

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Whatever happened to the one girl who found you via Facebook? I thought that was going well for a while?

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Whatever happened to the one girl who found you via Facebook? I thought that was going well for a while?

 

she broke up with me just over 5 months ago, very suddenly over messaging, it was a crappy end, she never contacted me again. it took me a while to get back over but now im trying to get back out there.

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ugh, never mind :(

 

She is not interested or looking for a relationship at this time and cant see this going further than friends, friends is good but still it is disappointing. tired or trying and always seeming to fail, maybe i will give this break for a while and just focus on the rest of my life.

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Well, I was just going to say, that girl you met on OKCupid -- if she's not looking to date, she shouldn't be on OKCupid!! So sounds to me like she just likes seeing if she is still attractive. Grrrr.

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no i don't think that was the case, she was only looking for friends as her profile indicated which i failed to notice when i first messaged her.

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