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Why can't I attract local women, only international


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I really don't understand. Here in LA I could attract maybe a 3, or a 4. When I extend my search over seas it's like that number doubles to a 6 or a 7.

 

I don't attract all international there is always rejection, but why is my luck better with them? I've had long distance relationships with 2 and they were fairly genuinely loving and caring to me.

 

I'm still trying to crack the dating riddle before I'm 30 and living by myself with 3 cats.

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I really don't understand. Here in LA I could attract maybe a 3, or a 4. When I extend my search over seas it's like that number doubles to a 6 or a 7.

 

I don't attract all international there is always rejection, but why is my luck better with them? I've had long distance relationships with 2 and they were fairly genuinely loving and caring to me.

 

I'm still trying to crack the dating riddle before I'm 30 and living by myself with 3 cats.

 

For me, every woman I have dated and just about any woman who has shown a shred of interest in my whole life has been international.

 

That is because native women of my ethnicity/race are more interested in me than US women of my ethnicity/race. Pretty simple really.

 

For you, I don't know. But people are very picky. If you have a pool, fish it.

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It's kind of like how some men are taller & more attractive while standing on their wallets. e.g. women chase rich guys.

 

To certain international women you are a rich American. Marrying you may be a ticket to the "promised land" -- a way out of their country, which makes you attractive.

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