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Upgraded my profile, put up a few pics, messaged a bunch of girls, said yes to everyone, searched the locals and new users, and nothing.. Nothing at all.

 

I even decided to let down my guard and pull back on my standards I.e. Having children. Even the few women I've talked to, who haven't outright called me creepy, may go hours online not reading my message. Others read it and don't even view my profile. What the hell?

 

Whatever. Forever alone it is. It's either that or one of the several physically disabled women who are interested.

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Lol nah you got it all wrong, if that site was your only source of meeting women then yes but I'm sure it's not. Why don't you try meeting women in other ways? POF and okcupid is too mainstream, the majority of your competition is on there, not good.

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You're doing it wrong.

 

POF (and OLD in general) is not Amazon. You don't just go there, browse for chicks, add to shopping cart and proceed to checkout. You can't just stick any old crap up and expect the Hot Chick fairy to rain pleasure down upon you.

 

You need to put time and effort into your photos, profile and messages. Give them a reason to reply to YOU rather than the 15 other guys who messaged her this morning. If you have a good profile, photos and messages then you WILL get success there. If not, then you will fail miserably.

 

Your choice!

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You're doing it wrong.

 

POF (and OLD in general) is not Amazon. You don't just go there, browse for chicks, add to shopping cart and proceed to checkout. You can't just stick any old crap up and expect the Hot Chick fairy to rain pleasure down upon you!

 

Damn it!

 

I thought all men came flocking if you posted a picture of your toe! :D

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Damn it! I thought all men came flocking if you posted a picture of your toe! :D

 

You're right. That's the difference between... well, being a card-carrying member of the vagina owners association or not.

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You're right. That's the difference between... well, being a card-carrying member of the vagina owners association or not.

Yes but what kind of guys do you think they'd get if you just posted a pic of a body part? Great guys looking for a real relationship, or idiots who don't even read the profile looking for a quick bunk up?

 

Women have to put in just as much effort to find a decent guy, as guys do. Guys have to deal with "no response". Women have to deal with the sex pests and idiots.

 

If a woman wants to be successful she should follow the "good profile" guidelines just as much as a man.

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You're right. That's the difference between... well, being a card-carrying member of the vagina owners association or not.

 

Oh I was a member but they stopped doing the annual service offers so I cancelled and went to Ann Summers instead... Its a bit of a hassle having to get your AA's direct from the manufacturer if you want them delivered in pallets but I guess its worth it in the end...

 

Sorry but it is Friday and I am in mischief mode!!! :D

 

OLD sucks. You need a behind tougher than a rhino to deal with all that rejection over nothing.

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Yes but what kind of guys do you think they'd get if you just posted a pic of a body part? .

 

I clean the sock fluff from under my nails and keep them in good order!

 

They are even painted red (I am too much of a wimp to go deep red so its sort of red red) at the moment!

 

Not even a bunion in sight!

 

Perhaps we should try this... You post a picture of a knee I will do a toe...

 

Sorry OP but it is obvious. Great pics are the ones that are flattering, smiling, sharp and in focus with good lighting... As for women being hounded I am still waiting for it! :D

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Needs more cleavage ;)

 

I can't see my feet as it is... If I start messing about with balcony and push ups it could have disastrous effects!

 

You can remove your shirt for your elbow shot! :D

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