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Ladies: How modest are you with online dating pictures


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Okay, I've seen my share of various pics online from the hoochie pics to well presented work attire.

 

From what extent do you, even though you may have the photos on Facebook and not on dating sites, do you include at least 1 picture showing off your body and if so in what fashion. Or do you completely limit it to work attire and a modest dress.

 

Or do you go as far as skin tight (not skin revealing) night club attire?

 

If you do have a bikini body, do you post it or save it for later?

Or are you the conservative type and just wear something you'd see someone wear to work or family friendly event?

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On a dating site, I think less is more. Sexy is fine; slutty is bad.

 

 

Although photos are important, if you only want to attract somebody using your body you can do that in any nightclub or on any street corner. Part of the allure of OLD should be that you ostensibly get to know somebody on a deeper less superficial level.

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On a dating site, I think less is more. Sexy is fine; slutty is bad.

 

 

Although photos are important, if you only want to attract somebody using your body you can do that in any nightclub or on any street corner. Part of the allure of OLD should be that you ostensibly get to know somebody on a deeper less superficial level.

 

Couldn't agree more.

 

There is NOTHING more annoying than hearing women bellyache that men only want them for their various body parts but then they've got countless selfies in skimpy and revealing outfits plastered all over their dating profile.

 

What did they expect? Duh!

 

It's unfortunate that many women don't seem to recognize the difference between classy sexy and trashy sexy.

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There is NOTHING more annoying than hearing women bellyache that men only want them for their various body parts but then they've got countless selfies in skimpy and revealing outfits plastered all over their dating profile.

And "ask me if u wanna no more" is all they wrote...

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And "ask me if u wanna no more" is all they wrote...

 

I never know how to start that conversation (so I usually don't bother).

 

Perhaps the first message should be to ask if they are happy being judged based on their looks. :rolleyes:

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I would never post bikini shots on any social media.

Pictures in ordinary clothing provokes quite enough in the way of sleazy comments.

 

 

I have pics of me in clothing which I often wear to work. They fit me but are not skin tight. I find skin tight a bit tacky. I also don't flash flesh either.

 

 

I still get mails about my body though - but that'll happen even if you don't have any body shots up too.

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And "ask me if u wanna no more" is all they wrote...

 

That's the kind of thing that would make me pass right on by.

 

For the most part I tend to dress modestly for the most part and my pictures reflect that. Most of the messages I receive from men are polite and respectful. My personal belief is in putting out what I want to get back in return.

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I don't have skimpy clothing on in any pictures I put up anywhere online. But I also don't really wear clothes like that. Even if I did, I care about my public image and when people have on super revealing clothes online or are in pics drinking and partying I imagine maybe they have no career or reputation to maintain or else they'd never do that.

 

I think one could put up a bikini pic tastefully like if you're doing some activity in a bikini and you wanted to showcase that you're a surfer or whatever other activity it is, that's fine, but to just stand in the mirror in a bikini or some such is a bit weird.

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For the most part I tend to dress modestly for the most part and my pictures reflect that. Most of the messages I receive from men are polite and respectful. My personal belief is in putting out what I want to get back in return.

 

Same. I'm quite modest on OLD and the majority of the messages I got were polite. In fact, anywhere in life, it's rare that a man is anything but polite to me. I don't get sleazy behavior, it's VERY rare.

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Yet women fall for meathead ******* guys all the time.

 

 

 

Sure, plenty do. Not sure how that's relevant to my post though.

 

I personally prefer the nerdy type.

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I don't show skin. One recent pic is of me in a cashmere sweater, skinny jeans and tall boots. Men just want to see if you are fat or flat chested.

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I'm not sure what a meat head is actually ? I am attracted to smart , funny , kind men.

 

 

Its a term mostly used by out of shape guys to describe guys that are very muscular or fit, etc..Even though 99% of us are actually just like every other guy, and by golly, some of us actually walk upright, too!:laugh:

 

Actually its no different for women...The dowdy and out of shape women like to call attractive and slim women with big breasts sluts and tramps, if they even bother to show a teemy bit of what they have...

 

Its kinda silly....

 

TFY

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Men just want to see if you are fat or flat chested.

 

That's probably a fair assessment. A full length body shot wearing clothes that fit is something I look for. If, instead, I find that those "clothes" happen to be a bikini then that's great, but far from necessary.

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Funny you mentioned this. There was this 47 year old Latin woman on OK Cupid that was wearing just a pair of jeans and a cashmere sweater. Only thing that was revealing was here cleavage. ... she had a V- neck. Lol. Wasn't too sleazy. But all here photos she had some kind of revealing V-neck top. Not all thar bad though

 

 

 

 

I don't show skin. One recent pic is of me in a cashmere sweater, skinny jeans and tall boots. Men just want to see if you are fat or flat chested.
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...and what happens if the woman is fat or flat-chested or both...

 

It probably depends if those things are compatible with what the viewer is seeking!

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I don't want to see a man in a puffy winter jacket and hat nor baggy shirt and baggy jeans.

 

Hat=bald.

 

Hat+beard=definitely bald!

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I don't want to see a man in a puffy winter jacket and hat nor baggy shirt and baggy jeans.

 

Hat=bald.

 

Hat+beard=definitely bald!

 

I see a lot of dudes growing beards. Usually it's to hide a weak jawline or a double chin. But recently I think it's the in thing to do so you appear different and rebel like. Like all the other dudes doing the same.

 

Sun glasses? It's to hide your eyes so people don't see how awkward you feel because you can't actually look them in the eye.

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Personally, if I only saw a head shot, she would be not considered. I am concerned about body shape (mainly...fat?). Total deal breaker.

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I see a lot of dudes growing beards. Usually it's to hide a weak jawline or a double chin. But recently I think it's the in thing to do so you appear different and rebel like. Like all the other dudes doing the same.

 

Sun glasses? It's to hide your eyes so people don't see how awkward you feel because you can't actually look them in the eye.

 

Its funny how a certain look becomes de rigeur and even more so when the opposite sex start to go mad for it.

 

Eg I am noticing a lot of women are specifically after beards & tattoos. How come this is a new thing, why were these guys not sought after a year or two ago? And you can bet in a year or twos time they will be undesirable, or at least not as sought after again.

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I don't want to see a man in a puffy winter jacket and hat nor baggy shirt and baggy jeans.

 

Hat=bald.

 

Hat+beard=definitely bald!

 

or... hat == it was cold that day and I didn't want to take my hat off for the photo because of the inevitable hat-hair underneath. :)

 

But I appreciate that you'd like to see if the man is bald or not. My profile also includes hatless pics.

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