thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 i want to meet alot of women sleep with alot of women before obviously im in my 30s so how can i go to parties meet women when i dont know anyone to get to parties and i live in town with mostly hoosier crappy bars. Please help advice appreciated. Thank you also like women i find online go to parties with friends i want to tag along. how to get them to invite me or bring me or want me to go with them? Link to post Share on other sites
Coe Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 Change your personality completely would be a start. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
KatZee Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 You want to go to frat parties in your 30s? You're going to look a little bit ridiculous seeing as frat guys are anywhere from 16-21 years old. I doubt random women are going to let you "tag along" to go to parties. What have you been doing between your teen years and now? Do you have friends? Link to post Share on other sites
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Author Share Posted November 22, 2014 my personality needs changing how? I am pretty open to talk to fun to hang out with and do fun stuff so my personality is good. How do i get in parties? Link to post Share on other sites
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Author Share Posted November 22, 2014 i have friends but not very many and they just go to shows some times not often no parties with women or anything. i mostly hung out at my gmas with my friends making rap music and playing video games until I was 20 met GF lost virginity i lived with her till I was 23 broke up met new GF we broke up 2 years later and been single past year trying to meet people no luck with anyone im turning 27 in 2 weeks i said i want to meet and go to parties before i am in my 30s as i will be too old. I need to go now! HELP! Link to post Share on other sites
KatZee Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 my personality needs changing how? I am pretty open to talk to fun to hang out with and do fun stuff so my personality is good. How do i get in parties? If you're fun to hang out with and fun to do stuff with, why is no one asking you to get together? It kind of seems like you don't have an idea of how to form relationships with people, friendly or otherwise. You don't just "get people to let you tag along" or "get them to invite you." You actually have to have relationships with people, who will then in turn invite you out if they do stuff. Also, be aware that most men/women in their 30's are not going to frat parties. They are at home with spouses, significant others, or taking care of kids. Did you miss out during your twenties or something? You sound like you're going through some sort of crisis. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
KatZee Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 i have friends but not very many and they just go to shows some times not often no parties with women or anything. i mostly hung out at my gmas with my friends making rap music and playing video games until I was 20 met GF lost virginity i lived with her till I was 23 broke up met new GF we broke up 2 years later and been single past year trying to meet people no luck with anyone im turning 27 in 2 weeks i said i want to meet and go to parties before i am in my 30s as i will be too old. I need to go now! HELP! Yeah, I don't know what to tell you. Wild houses parties ended around 25 for me. That just wasn't happening anymore as you got older. You're going to have to come to grips with the fact that you missed out on the party scene in your twenties and just try to make the most with what you have now. Try Meetup.com or something to get introduced to people with similar interests. You can meet people and then suggest clubs/lounges/bars. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Author Share Posted November 22, 2014 meetup.com is for losers how do you form relationships? I have friends they dont invite me to parties ever i dont know dude how do you make close friends outside high school it seems like no one ****ing cares about anyone but them selves im not coming through grips i cant go parties. people go university and go into random parties its possible just because i wasted 5 yrs life in relationship with woman doesnt mean i cant party in sleep around WTF iS THE DEAL? Link to post Share on other sites
LisaSmith_1970 Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 Well, you might be too old to go to a frat party, meetup.com would be a good site to meet new people. Link to post Share on other sites
Coe Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 my personality needs changing how? I am pretty open to talk to fun to hang out with and do fun stuff so my personality is good. How do i get in parties? I think this thread speaks for itself. 27 looking for information about how to be invited to parties that are for 18-21 year olds by random people that aren't your friends. Maybe you should get a sign that says free drugs and hang out at universities? If your personality was that good you wouldn't have to ask us how to be invited, you would already be invited. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Author Share Posted November 22, 2014 I dont understand what do i need to do to get invited what do i need in personality besides charm whit and funny and fun? Link to post Share on other sites
Coe Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 Less desperation would help. Maybe not calling people losers then asking how to form relationships in the same sentence... You are a strange person. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Author Share Posted November 22, 2014 Ok then how do you make friends with people to where they will want to hangout with you and invite you to parties i need serious answers. Link to post Share on other sites
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Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Author Share Posted November 22, 2014 Not trying to be an ******* i just dont understand why i cant get invited to parties with hot women? Link to post Share on other sites
KatZee Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 meetup.com is for losers how do you form relationships? I have friends they dont invite me to parties ever i dont know dude how do you make close friends outside high school it seems like no one ****ing cares about anyone but them selves im not coming through grips i cant go parties. people go university and go into random parties its possiblejust because i wasted 5 yrs life in relationship with woman doesnt mean i cant party in sleep around WTF iS THE DEAL? Meetup is for losers? Sorry to say, but you're not looking all that popular yourself. You have no friends, no one asking you to get together, no social life clearly. If people aren't inviting you out with them, they aren't your friends, and clearly they don't want to hang out with you. You need to really change your perspective here. And no, "people" don't go to universities to go to random parties. COLLEGE STUDENTS go to college and go to random parties. Again, these kids are anywhere from 16-21 years old. You think meetup is for losers? YOU'RE going to look like the biggest loser walking into a frat party at your age. Link to post Share on other sites
KatZee Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 Not trying to be an ******* i just dont understand why i cant get invited to parties with hot women? Because maybe everyone you come into contact with can smell your desperation and entitled behavior from 10 feet away. Who on this planet told you that you were entitled to be invited to parties with "hot women"? Your personality and behaviors leave a lot to be desired, and I'm pretty sure this is why no one is inviting you anywhere. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Author Share Posted November 22, 2014 Can i have some personal advice here. If people gave a crap aboit someone they would help me out be friend talk to me invite to parties etc.. What is the problem? Im not trying to bash meetup but when i go on there people are in their late 30s 40s etc.. Im still young enough to go to house parties. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 22, 2014 Author Share Posted November 22, 2014 What do you mean by your last sentence? Link to post Share on other sites
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 23, 2014 Author Share Posted November 23, 2014 Saying im.having a crisis and calling me socially inept is not giving me answers how to get in frat parties! I seriously need help and advice on this!! I know i made mistake 5 years being in relationships being afc staying with 1 girl does not mean i have to suffer! Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Invites to parties come via having friends and being sociable. At your age you are very unlikely to be invited to frat parties. Link to post Share on other sites
Cedar27 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 (edited) i want to meet alot of women sleep with alot of women before obviously im in my 30s How about settling down with someone who you care about? Also why are you looking to go to frat parties in your thirties? If I ran a frat (which I would never do), i'd take one look at you and think you were law enforcement. I wouldn't even let you in the door. Edited November 23, 2014 by Cedar27 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Saying im.having a crisis and calling me socially inept is not giving me answers how to get in frat parties! I seriously need help and advice on this!! I know i made mistake 5 years being in relationships being afc staying with 1 girl does not mean i have to suffer! What are you doing with your life again? You live with your grandma and play video games you say. It doesn't seem you have much of a social circle so that's the first thing...if you have no female friends or other friends who are going out how would they even meet you to invite you anywhere to begin with? You'd have to start by doing some kind of activity which gets you to be around people, form friendships and then from there they will naturally invite you out. You say meet ups are for losers...but you don't think staying with granny playing video games and waiting for random women to knock on your door and invite you to college parties when you're almost 30 is? I think you should let go of the whole frat party thing. If you wanted that you should have gone to college and then done that when you'd have been around it and been the right age. At your age you shouldn't be looking to go to frat parties esp if you're not even friends will college people. I'm a grad student and have no desire to go to undergrad frat parties, but I at least am in an environment where I know college kids so could do so potentially IF I wanted to. You OTOH don't seem to be in such an environment, so it's best if you try to widen your social circle through some kind of activity or become friends with coworkers and through that your chances will be higher of someone inviting you to a party. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 You can't get yourself invited to fraternity parties in your 30s. Those are for college kids not adults. Even if you are a returning adult student, Greek life already passed you by. MeetUp.com is a good idea. Try joining other kinds of "fraternities" like the Elks, the Moose, the Kiwanis, the Masons, the Knights of Columbus etc. Those organizations have bars & are often filled with party people. They do a lot of good works for the community too. You keep an eye out for when they are doing things open to the public & you attend those events. While you are there you express interest in joining. You can also volunteer someplace like the local fire department in your town. Link to post Share on other sites
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