soccerguy1978 Posted October 30, 2014 Share Posted October 30, 2014 I've had a rather strange situation happen to me today. I got an email from a very casua.l female acquaintance of mine who said a female friend of hers sent me a message on Facebook and was wondering if I had gotten it. Since I'm not friends with the person who sent me a message, I check my Facebook PMs and sure enough there is a message from her.... from yesterday (Tuesday) around 3:36 p.m. and then another around 5:40 p.m.asking if we could "get to know each other if I was single. She had also sent me two more messages in less than three hours asking if we could chat. I respond to them this morning.. she replies back saying she is good and if I am single. I had to replay I was busy (since Wednesdays are busy at work) and yes that I was single. She replies let's talk when you are not busy. She then messages me throughout the afternoon, asking if I wanted to talk or am I busy. Later, she asks if I would like to work out with her since the mutual friend told her I liked to work out. I told her I would not be able to make it to the gym until next week because of my schedule. then she is like, first u have to meet my family because I live with them. A few hours later, she sends me her phone number and sends me more FB messages throughout the evening. and just a minute ago, asked if I would mind meeting her family. I can pretty much surmise she is looking for a relationship/something other than friends. but why all the messages and wanting me to meet her family when I've NEVER met her? I guess her asking if I was single should have been a dead giveway on what she likely wants. I am not sure if she would be the type I would feel attracted to for a date. I would consider maybe a friends date but she is being very aggressive albeit maybe unintentional With all of her abundance of messages, I cannot help but feel a little uncomfortable and skeptical and honestly, I have never been in this situation before so I am at a loss for what to do next. I don't want to be an ass but I am not sure I feel attraction And I am sure the roles have been reversed before with me doing the over-contacting to a female I really like. I guess now I am starting to understand what it feels like to have the tables turned. Any opinions on why this girl is doing this or what her true intentions are? Or any other advice or comments Link to post Share on other sites
kolleamm Posted October 30, 2014 Share Posted October 30, 2014 How much do you trust her? Do you trust her enough to go into a "random" house to meet her "family"? Sounds a little fishy and aggressive. Be careful. Link to post Share on other sites
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