Ready2DateAgain Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 I'm a 32 yr old male who got out of a engagement (not by choice) a yr ago, was with this woman for 5 yrs,gave her everything she wanted including a giant rock.Somewhere in the last yr of our engagement she began to not see me as much and when I confronted her about it she kept saying she's been working.I gave her space but the excuses and absent behavior kept increasing.Eventually we stopped communicating for a month,when she found out I was hanging out with another woman she blew a gasket,What was I to do when she wasn't communicating with me,her reason was "I'm working and you need to understand that" .Well eventually we broke up and a few months later she tried to reconcile with me which I agreed ,for months(3) she kept avoiding contact with me but wanted me to prove to her that I was financially capable of supporting her,so she had me deposit about 1200 a month into her account ,when I told her that this was unfair ways to go about things her reply was I'm testing you ,anyhow eventually I found out she was prego and making wedding plans with another man this after yrs of telling me she never wanted to have kids. Long story short she left me as damaged goods,it has taken me a long time to heal and I want to start dating to give love another chance with a new person,I know not all woman are bad apples and I refuse to let one rot me away! Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Dude, she sounds like a classic golddigger. She took the rock and thought she'd just fade out, but since you questioned her on it, she came up with her next con scheme. I'm so sorry this happened to you, but there had to be some red flags along the line. Hopefully, you will recognize those in the future. Don't go giving women money. There's plenty of time for that after you're married -- as long as she's putting in money too. Link to post Share on other sites
avintagegirl Posted November 2, 2014 Share Posted November 2, 2014 This is good to hear. When I would get discouraged by a man I was interested in and feeling like I wanted to shut my heart down, I always remembered if you don't let anyone in you won't feel the hurt - but you lose the feeling amazing too. Glad to hear you are ready for some amazing. I hope you find just the lady for you when the time is right. Link to post Share on other sites
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