cottom Posted October 25, 2014 Share Posted October 25, 2014 I rent in a monday to friday residence, which is with an old woman and im not allowed anybody round. The area is in the middle of nowhere, just immigrant families around there. I work in an engineering building which is men around aged 40-65 with families and children and their own lives. Nobody around my age their (22). Weekends I drive back home to visit family and see mates, either they have long term gf's so seeing them consists of just sitting in with a film, or the only girls they know they slept with because they're "Top Lads". This is the time where most girls you try talk with have got 50 guys all messaging them on facebook, text etc trying to get in their pants, theyre all players smooth talking, gym bodies etc so obviously the girl goes for them. I go the gym back at my families place but the gym is now just full of couples or women flirting with the personal trainers to get free lessons. I go clubbing but the girls you meet dont want anything, and how can i possibly date when i am only around saturday and sunday. Or alternatively i am at a place monday to friday where i can't have anyone round and i go to bed at 9pm after coming home from work at 6pm. It is just so difficult, has anybody got any suggestions? Because as it is i'm 22, relatively good looking, good well paid job, all my exes are deserate for me back because i am a great bf, but "everything ends for a reason" right so no going back there. Help? Link to post Share on other sites
Destined2B Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 You either do what you're doing now and wait till you're older and financially secure, or quit your "good" job, move to the city, and live where other young folks are living. Either decision is going to be good. The first one is better for you in the long term. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts