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Quite recently, there's a woman I mentioned that I posted about earlier that I got together with from Meetup.

 

Apparently she had been busy the entire month on closing the deal on the house and was busy being trained for the job she just started. Things were rather "hectic" in her life when we last talked, so she told me she'd likely not have much of a social life because of it.

 

I figured it was a blow-off, so hadn't talked to her since April.

 

Then yesterday, out of the blue, she calls me saying she's "On my way to my area and wanted to explore that area of town."

 

Luckily, I was still pondering what to do that afternoon. Her timing was just right, but I found it very odd that with it now being October that she wanted to get together, while previously I made a few attempts to call her, with no call back.

 

She was even kind of surprised how I forgot certain things about it (as if she expected me to remember).

 

She told me she has a tendency to be "spontaneous", I was like "Ah, I see." I don't mind it myself, but in this situation, it was a bit extreme...but hey, maybe she was using it as an excuse to meet up with me.

 

She said she liked to go to the Springs, and it was a toss up by either coming my direction or that and I said, "I wouldn'tve mind doing that, would you have called me if you wanted to go to the springs?"

 

And she said, "No, because you were 'on the way."

 

So apparently, several months later the stars were aligned in such a way that made it convenient enough for her to come see me.

 

Oh, she takes Iphone pics while she's driving (Yikes!)

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So she spontaneously forgot you existed?

 

And then she spontaneously remembered?

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