is it easier to attract older women?

[Eddy Street]

I'm not into older women but I'm sure that if I work hard enough I can at least be a little attracted to them. I'm so sick and tired of being single and all I want is love, I'm willing to do anything, even force myself to date people in their late 30s if that's what it takes.

Edited August 27, 2014 by Eddy Street

[GorillaTheater]

I'm willing to do anything, even force myself to date people in their late 30s if that's what it takes.

 

My God, the sacrifice.

[preraph]

Try going to some local meetups if you have them in your area. It's worth a shot at least. If you have a passion for something, think about if there are any volunteer opportunities and do that. People shy away from volunteering because they're busy, but most allow once a week or even once a month. I did the zoo. My friends does dressing impoverished teens once a month. You can meet people that way. If you like pets, a lot of single women are into animal rescue and they need help always. If you like kids, a lot of women are volunteering in helping kids. Use your imagination. If you've never googled meetups, put in your town name and meetup and if you're in a real town, there will be all types of groups for anything from star gazing to pet stuff to singles groups.

[Woggle]

I wouldn't say easier but at least you know what page you are on with them. They tend to be upfront and hate games as much as most men do. There is much less drama.

[normal person]

I'd be really careful with this "I'll work to become attracted to them" idea. Your attraction to someone is a matter of biology, not effort. In fact your attraction is effortless. People are frequently attracted to those they know are bad news or no good for them, it's not something they can help. It doesn't work the reverse way; if you got to choose who you liked, life would be a whole lot easier.

[D.Mc.]

Because older woman should be grateful for any attention thrown their way?

 

Because feeling so grateful, we'll give it up to anyone?

 

Because you're not attracting the 25 y.o. hotties, who think YOU should be grateful if they show you any attention?

 

IMO as an older woman - NO: it will be harder to attract an older woman because we know our own worth & having been through a r/s or two & more years of actually living on the earth, we also know your next move/thought/sexual position before you even know it yourself.

[CarrieT]

I'm willing to do anything, even force myself to date people in their late 30s if that's what it takes.

 

If you have to force yourself into a situation that is remotely unpleasant for you for any reason, your discomfort and dissatisfaction will be noticed and rebuffed.

[Anela]

I'm not into older women but I'm sure that if I work hard enough I can at least be a little attracted to them. I'm so sick and tired of being single and all I want is love, I'm willing to do anything, even force myself to date people in their late 30s if that's what it takes.

 

Please don't. We aren't chopped liver, to be seen as often as you, or anyone else, can stomach us.

 

Do you know many girls who dream about a man who could be at least a little attracted to them? I don't know any, and we tend to grow up with the same notion that we could actually attract someone who would love us fully, as well as lust over our bodies- possibly even our minds.

[Priv]

we also know your next move/thought/sexual position before you even know it yourself.

 

Thank you, now I am scared of older women

[Rick_B]

You know when I was 21 I started a 4 year relationship with a 37 year old woman. Now divorced in my 40s I have had relationships (not just ONS!) with women in their early 20s.

 

In all cases it was the woman not the age that mattered. All of them were unusual for their age - I am not interested generally in much younger women - nor was I into older women when I was 21!

 

Attraction happens and don't try to overthink it

[sillyanswer]

I'm not into older women but I'm sure that if I work hard enough I can at least be a little attracted to them. I'm so sick and tired of being single and all I want is love, I'm willing to do anything, even force myself to date people in their late 30s if that's what it takes.

 

If it feels like forcing yourself then please don't do it.

 

Those late 30s women don't need any extra reasons to feel bitter about men!

[irc333]

I may consider this because as of late most younger women I've come across .... early to mid 30s...have been some what immature. ...considering women up to their early to mid 50s..... usually take pretty good care of themselves physically where they look YOung for their age.

 

 

I'm not into older women but I'm sure that if I work hard enough I can at least be a little attracted to them. I'm so sick and tired of being single and all I want is love, I'm willing to do anything, even force myself to date people in their late 30s if that's what it takes.

[organizedchaos]

I'm not into older women but I'm sure that if I work hard enough I can at least be a little attracted to them. I'm so sick and tired of being single and all I want is love, I'm willing to do anything, even force myself to date people in their late 30s if that's what it takes.

 

Your desperation will be just as apparent to older women as it is to women your age and younger.

 

That is why you're likely still single.

[ja123]

I'm not into older women but I'm sure that if I work hard enough I can at least be a little attracted to them. I'm so sick and tired of being single and all I want is love, I'm willing to do anything, even force myself to date people in their late 30s if that's what it takes.

 

 

 

HAHAAAAAAAAAA This has given me the best laugh I had all day.

 

 

Come, little boy. Come to Mommy. I'll force you to do things against your will and then you can pretend that you didn't enjoy it!