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I know we are all unique in some way, but I'm quite different to girls my age. I don't go to clubs/bars or drink, I hate gossiping and bitchiness. I love things like gardening (growing flowers from seed) I'd say I'm a humanist and believe in helping and being a good person. I just want to enrich mine and somebody else's life because I have a lot of love to give. I am also very committed and have strong values.

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You gotta remember that EVERYONE thinks they are unique.

 

EVERYONE thinks they are different for this reason or that reason.

 

Heck, I was voted Most Unique at my High School so everyone at my school thought I was pretty different.

 

But the bottom line is that there is something about you that will be special and wonderful to someone else and the trick is finding that person.

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no, they hate them.

 

i'm just kidding. be confident in yourself and be happy with who you are - THAT is what quality men are attracted to.

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I know we are all unique in some way, but I'm quite different to girls my age. I don't go to clubs/bars or drink, I hate gossiping and bitchiness. I love things like gardening (growing flowers from seed) I'd say I'm a humanist and believe in helping and being a good person. I just want to enrich mine and somebody else's life because I have a lot of love to give. I am also very committed and have strong values.

 

You sound lovely.

I do think that guys would find someone like you really attractive because you are different but mostly because of your beautiful personality.

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I think guys love uniqueness. I would imagine things would work well if you found someone who also doesn't like to go out and what not.

 

I think in any highly socialized environment you will find elements of drama, for good or bad- bitchiness is more of a symptom of the drama imo- though there are a few people who are naturally bitchy, but I find that to be less common, especially as people get older.

 

Personally I love people who are much different, really out there, but who are completely confident socially.

 

I also have had female friends that I would describe as very unique- but once the settle down with someone they are no different than most other females. They same issues, complaints, arguments etc.

 

People are usually quite similar when it comes down to it, and I do find that people who think they are much different often have a lot of ego wrapped up in it ie. 'they are bitchy, usual, drink, dance, go out- I am not, therefore I am better than them.'

You have to be careful to avoid thinking like that, it leads to bitterness.

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I know we are all unique in some way, but I'm quite different to girls my age. I don't go to clubs/bars or drink, I hate gossiping and bitchiness. I love things like gardening (growing flowers from seed) I'd say I'm a humanist and believe in helping and being a good person. I just want to enrich mine and somebody else's life because I have a lot of love to give. I am also very committed and have strong values.

 

 

Then you are the kind of person who will be my "ideal partner". I do volunteer work, gardening, run marathons, am fit and in good shape (12% body fat) for someone in his 40s considering I don't go to the gym, mentor kids and help them understand science, have a profession career, likes to read and watch less TV......am also **** in the saddle (so have been told) :p

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