longlegzs80 Posted October 25, 2003 Share Posted October 25, 2003 I think I have brought up this topic once before. I find myself writing the same thing or somewhat the same kinds of threads over and over. Anyways, if I asked this question, you don;t have to response. If I did not write this thread it would be greatly appreciated if someone can lend me some advice. Okay, here it is. What are the signs that a guy likes you or is interested in talking with you? I seriously don't know. So, I am asking people who know this from experience or whatever it is. CAn someone list the signs that someone is interested, or what I should look for. Hope all this makes sense. Thank you. ---SARAH Link to post Share on other sites
Guidette82 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Sarah, I wish I had an answer to this question...in all honesty, there is none. Guys are ALL different. Some guys still do the "stare from across the room" thing..others use sexual advances, and others just act goofy or like they would any other time. I hae read hundreds of magazines to try to get an answer to this question, but there is no TRUE answer. Magazines will tell you "if he picks up papers for you when you drop them, he likes you"...OR HE IS JUST A GENTLEMAN. Honestly, you need to have more of a background on this question...like what type of person he is...is he shy, outgoing? Young, old? What kind of work does he do? How long have you known him? HOw does he act around you opposed to other women AND men? If you can give me some more detail about him, I would gladly TRY to help. I just don't want to give you false hope and un-realistic answers! Link to post Share on other sites
Lew Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 i really like this girl named SARAH>>>...& she knows i like her....i asked her if she liked me at all & shes said yes....but she likes another guy 2.....& on AIM her profile says.... John~thank you for being soo respectful of me and rele caring...i love all our talks....u r soo sweet..and i feel like i can rele talk to u... Lew~thanks for always being so nice and talking to me about just stuff....it is still fun it looks like she likes him(john) more...... so what makes her able 2 talk 2 him about n e thing .... how could i make her feel the same way about me...? SUM 1 please tell me ... Link to post Share on other sites
Ici Ixi Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Sarah, I'm sorry but I alos wish I had all the answers. I agree with Guidette though, you really need t know the person's background/personality. Lew, I'm really sorry... from he sounds of theat it does seem like she likes him more... or maybe she can just talk to him easier but doesn't actually like him more... just, like, as a friend. I don't know, maybe if you were more open to her she'd feel she could be with you, or maybe... she also used "respectful" "caring" and "sweet" to describe him.... maybe you could try your hardes to fit that descrition too. And if you already do... maybe she just does feel that way for him more, and sometimes theres nothing yuou can do... and it's not always your fault. I'm rootin' for you 2!! Hope time brings your answers! Ici Ixi Link to post Share on other sites
sweetbilly Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 There are two different kinds of like: the i like you as a friend and wouldn't mind sleeping with you like. And the ol' i really like this girl and would like to have a respectful meaningful relationship with her like. Which one do you want answers to? Link to post Share on other sites
sienna Posted April 14, 2004 Share Posted April 14, 2004 If he jokes around with you or talks to you alot and if his eyes light up ! Link to post Share on other sites
ThisGirlNameKD Posted April 14, 2004 Share Posted April 14, 2004 Different signs mean different things to different people. The only true way you'll know if someone likes you is if they tell you...verbally. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted April 23, 2004 Share Posted April 23, 2004 Look for a rise in his pants. Link to post Share on other sites
Author longlegzs80 Posted April 23, 2004 Author Share Posted April 23, 2004 I am talking about, how can you tell if a guy is interested in having a first date with you, or shows interest without even knowing you but finds you attractive. Does that make sense? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted April 23, 2004 Share Posted April 23, 2004 Yeah. Look for a rise in his pants. Link to post Share on other sites
Lilyann Posted April 23, 2004 Share Posted April 23, 2004 UCFKevin- What if he wears really loose pants? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted April 24, 2004 Share Posted April 24, 2004 Tell him "Hammer pants went away with Hammer. It's time to move on." Link to post Share on other sites
Lilyann Posted April 24, 2004 Share Posted April 24, 2004 Ok, so maybe not "Hammer" pants, but the loose fitting pants that guys wear. Like you can see anything. Link to post Share on other sites
befuddled11 Posted April 24, 2004 Share Posted April 24, 2004 Originally posted by longlegzs80 I am talking about, how can you tell if a guy is interested in having a first date with you, or shows interest without even knowing you but finds you attractive. Does that make sense? If a guy's interested in having a first date with you, you'll know it, because he'll ask you out on a first date. Simple, hey? Lots of people find other people attractive....but that doesn't necessarily mean they're interested in asking them out. For a lot of people, "looks" alone aren't going to be the impetus to asking them out. Lots of gorgeous people are dense/airheads/clueless/have no personality, etc. If the reason behind this post is that there's someone you're interested in, who you hope will ask you out, yet you're not sure if he's interested..and are hoping to learn more about what "signs" to look for, so you can ascertain whether he's interested......why don't you just cut out the sherlock holmes stuff....and if you're interested in him, make the first move. Invite him to come hang out with you and your friends, something casual....not something heavy. There's really no point in trying to "guess" what someone thinks/feels about ya......it's an exercise in futility, for the most part. They may be unintentionally giving off the wrong signals, they may not know how to convey an interest, etc. Life is short. If you're interested in someone, take a chance and initiate something. What have you got to lose? Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted April 26, 2004 Share Posted April 26, 2004 if a guy's interested in a date, he'll either ask for your #, for a date, or if ur busy on so and so day. in general if u wanna see if he's interested in you (likes you) you should at least know more about his background. See how he acts around with his girl friends, or other girls, compared to how he acts around you. if he acts differently around you, then it's probably definite. normally if someone is interested in the other (person wise or going on dates wise) they will show it by asking questions pertaining to you, to get to know you better. Link to post Share on other sites
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