Want to continue friendship with a woman.

[charlenethedog]

This summer, I met an interesting woman at the theatre class. We both find each other interesting, and I also find her smart.

 

We both create talk to each others and I helped her to buy a second hand car out side of class time.

 

I want to continue to develop our friendship after the class is finished.

 

How can I continue our friendship? I am over 30 and this is the second time I have friendship with a female that I like. (The first time it burned big time)

 

I don't want to appear as a creep or something.

[spiderowl]

Could you suggest meeting up outside of class time, maybe to go to a show or something? I think if she wants to continue being friends, she is likely to agree to something like that. If you want to date her, then you could be brave and ask her out for a coffee or lunch. Why do you think she would find it creepy? Unless there is a big age difference or something, I can't imagine she would. If she likes you, she'll be happy to meet up. If she's not sure or not keen, she may decline. Basically, the guys I know that get to go on dates with women actually ask them out; relying on meeting them again by chance doesn't really work, neither does waiting for the woman to contact you. We women have been taught that if a man wants to get to know you, he'll try to find ways of spending more time with you. If she wants to get to know you, she'll respond.

[charlenethedog]

The class is already finished.

 

I am learning to have female friend, and if I am lucky, a dating relationship.

 

I am 32, and she is 37.

 

Thank you.