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No, I'm not a virgin. No, I've been in several relationships. But the point is the only way I really meet girls is through my friends. I'd say most of my gfs I've had I met like that. I'm assuming it isn't a particularly good thing. lol

 

I'm 19 years old. I scream in a band. I'm really not a bad looking guy at all and I can deff get some good looking girls, but what troubles me is meeting them. How can I go about doing this. I'm thinking about attending a lot more "shows" to see a variety of girls my 'style.' I do talk to some girls on Myspace and we kinda connect but then I usually stop talking to them because I don't know how to ask them for their number or ask them to hangout with out sounding like a creep over myspace or pathetic. So I save myself the embaresment. Is this possible? Whats the best way to meet girls? Where? How should I approach them? Whats the best way to seal the deal and leave with her number? Thanks!

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When you are playing.. make eye contact with one that you like

After your set.. go talk to her

 

If she matched your eye contact.. go up to her and say "Now you can't look at me like that and not say hi"

Boom conversation started.. roll with it

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You have an amazing advantage over so many guys. Most guys must GO to places to meet girls. You have girls come to your 'place'. You ought to utilize that.

 

The progression of any relationship initiates with eye contact. Practice on your eye contact, make sure it is powerful, confident, direct, but not stalky, "Imma get you when you're not ready" look. You can do it anywhere-the streets you walk in, buses you ride, people you interact with. Watch their eyes. Watch their pupils. Just gaze into peoples' eyes. It also builds rapport, which is always good.

 

Once you manage to do that well - you have everything you need.

 

Just a side note: there is no "right" thing to say to start a conversation. Pick anything. As long as you do it confidently, self-assured, and enjoyably, you'll succeed anywhere.

 

I know it might seem like my post is not helpful at all, but really all you have to work on is your self confidence, the way you carry yourself, the way you treat yourself in terms of eye contact and personality (you must be interesting and enjoyable to talk to, otherwise, the greatest line won't get you anywhere).

 

Work on those things, and you shall be fine.

 

About phone numbers: just say, "do you have a phone?" -assuming she answers yes, tell her "give me your number. I gotta run for the aftershow, I'll talk to you later". And walk away. That shall do the trick.

 

Sometimes you'll get a "no" for your question. In this case, just look at her, and say "Ah, that bad, aren't you?" and just walk away. Usually, they'd stop you half-way through turning around. If they don't, just keep walking. Remember, you have many choices there. She's the one that'll benefit if she gets you. Then go up for the next gal.

 

I usually prefer to ask for emails because girls get a certain "ego boost" when you call them. Some women are just out for that, and once you call them, they'll blow you off. Also there are funner comebacks in case they say "no". Always ask "do you have email/phone?", not "CAN I HAVE..". Show confidence. Ask her "do you have email?". Usually they'd say yes - in that case just give her a paper or something and say "write it down". As she's writing, you can tell her "write your number down there too" or something like that. All confidently, with a slow pace in speech. Don't show anxiety. Slow, steady talk. In case she answers "no" - just tell her with a lil smile on your face "Ha, you got no electricity? Poor you." That'll most probably make her laugh and open her up a bit. :)

 

Try those, remember, confidence.

 

Hope I helped,

 

Dan.

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When you are playing.. make eye contact with one that you like

After your set.. go talk to her

 

If she matched your eye contact.. go up to her and say "Now you can't look at me like that and not say hi"

Boom conversation started.. roll with it

yea its all about teh eye contact

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