dating blues

[IUPchick]

Where oh where is a good place to meet NICE guys? PLease tell me WHERE!! I am so tired of these college dorks that think they are so cool or whatever. Do I have to go hang out Home Depot or the library or something? Getting set up on blind dates sucks. I hate when people try to fix you up with someone they think will be Mr right.

[Tony T]

It depends on the kind of guy you want. If you like rednecks or carpenters, Home Depot is great. If you enjoy bookworms or students, the library is wonderful.

 

If you like people who enjoy looking at themselves in the mirror or like to take care of themselves, go to a gym. It may take you a while to find out which they are.

 

If you like guys who enjoy the outdoors, go to parks, lakes, beaches, etc.

 

But no matter where you are, there are no assurances they are nice. Nature has very well mixed a**h***s among the nice guys and you just have to do the work required to separate them.

 

Even the people you meet in churches come with no guarantee. I have dated some real bxtches I met at weddings. I'm sure it works the same way for women looking for guys.

 

So if the answer to you question was easy, everybody would have somebody nice.

 

You're on your own here, babes!

[Bill]

Normally people that want to be noticed are the wrong people. Look at school for guys, everyone there has to go, no matter who they are. Do NOT use the internet. I know I'm a "nice guy" because I've treated my past girlfriend very well, and they've told me that. But I don't "hang out" anywhere. No home depot, no library, no arcade etc. On the other hand, I have to goto class, and that is the only place I will be noticed. It sucks, but this is the way it usually is.

Where oh where is a good place to meet NICE guys? PLease tell me WHERE!! I am so tired of these college dorks that think they are so cool or whatever. Do I have to go hang out Home Depot or the library or something? Getting set up on blind dates sucks. I hate when people try to fix you up with someone they think will be Mr right.

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Since when do rednecks congregate at Home Depot? Seeing how I'm in the process of renovating my home, I spend a lot of time there getting advice on doing renovation, getting supplies and materials and light fixtures and paint and such. What is your definition of a redneck? I haven't seen any there. I've mainly seen nice, neatly dressed people who are buying things to fix or improve their home or whatever. And yeah, likely carpenters and those into construction. Have you ever been to Home Depot? Not sure why you felt it necessary to insult a good portion of their customers by labeling them as rednecks. Most true rednecks, I wouldn't think, would be all that concerned with the upkeep of their homes. Though maybe now I'm making an absurd generalization?

It depends on the kind of guy you want. If you like rednecks or carpenters, Home Depot is great. If you enjoy bookworms or students, the library is wonderful. If you like people who enjoy looking at themselves in the mirror or like to take care of themselves, go to a gym. It may take you a while to find out which they are. If you like guys who enjoy the outdoors, go to parks, lakes, beaches, etc. But no matter where you are, there are no assurances they are nice. Nature has very well mixed a**h***s among the nice guys and you just have to do the work required to separate them.

 

Even the people you meet in churches come with no guarantee. I have dated some real bxtches I met at weddings. I'm sure it works the same way for women looking for guys. So if the answer to you question was easy, everybody would have somebody nice. You're on your own here, babes!

[Tony T]

Some Home Depots have more rednecks that others, according to the National Bureau of Statistics and the Census Bureau. Rural Home Depots have more than urban ones. And some urban ones have more than others.

 

Now, it really depends on what we're calling rednecks here and I certainly don't want to offend anybody so we'll just sort of keep it sort of general like.

 

Yes, I do go to Home Depot occasionally. And I also cut up and have fun on this message board a lot...because there are just some posts that I can do that with. Since you don't know me or my personality, you may think I have something against Homo Depot, rednecks...or that I just make hasty generalizations. I'm not guilty of any of that. I just like to have fun and am sorry I inconvenienced your brain by making it think I think Home Depot is a congregation place for rednecks.

 

But, all things aside, I would not think that Home Depot would be the most ideal place for finding true romance...but there are exceptions. And there are also places were there are more concentrations of rednecks, communists, terrorists, sex perverts, homosexuals, heterosexuals, bisexuals, etraterrestrials, etc.

 

Wow, there's places for everybody.

 

And, for your information, I've made a lot of money with Home Depot stock over the last ten years so I really don't care what variety of humans, aliens, or animals congregate their since they all contributed to lining my pockets with nice profits.

 

ET, phone home (depot)!

[IUP ALUMNI]

I also went to IUP and believe it or not I met the guy I'm with in my Spanish class. I asked him out, kind of. That is a long story but I do know how you feel. IUP isn't the hottest spot in the world to find guys and for me being from Eastern PA I found that the guys in Western Pa are a bit different. I'm actually having problems with my relationship because my boyfriend is still at IUP and I've graduated and live in NY. I learned that while you're in college have fun and don't feel like you need to find someone. Actually spend time with your girlfriends and have as much fun with them until you graduate. There is always time for boys and when you graduate and move on spending time with and keeping in contact with most of your closest girlfriends becomes less and less. I really miss my college girlfriends and regret that I spent more time worried about the relationships I was in at college then spending time with them. I really hope that you find this info useful. Believe me I love my boyfriend but when I got to NY I found that there are a million hot, professional guys out there that are really nice. You have plenty of time!!!!