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The girl i'm sort of interested in, well, here is the thing.

 

In the beginning i was like we should go out this weekend, she said ok. Well we've sort of gone out, hung out a couple of times, haven't really had a dinner date yet, her too busy and I too busy.

 

Anyway, one day she couldn't get a hold of me because i was not around and she told me later that she wanted to hang out that night.

 

So i asked her what she was doing in a couple of days, and she was like, i don't know if i have time. I was like ok. Didn't think nothing of it.

 

But It's been like this a few times, where she's like ok we should go out, but then she'll be like i'm busy. She's never canceled plans that we've had yet, but most of the time plans are never actually made.

 

I don't know if she's playing games or what not, but honestly, i'm not going to hang around and wait forever for her to continue to say i'm too busy or what not. I mean i like her and all, and will take things slow if she wants, but i'm not going to wait wait wait and then suddenly she's with somebody else or something.

 

I understand people are busy with work and all, as i am, but sometimes it's just i'm sort of confused about the whole situation.

 

What do you think?

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What do I think?

 

I think if she was interested in going out with you or getting to know you better she would make time. Unless she's under contract to Universal Pictures to make a full length feature film, she can find time to see you if she wants.

 

I don't think she's interested.

 

The one sure way you'll find out is if you just stop calling her, stop communicating with her, etc. If she does like you, that will drive her nuts and she will come to you on her knees...(uh, and don't take advantage of that particular situation).

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she sounds indecisive about what she wants. Just ask her point-blank if there's a chance that the two of you will get beyond this "it's on/it's off/it's on again" stage, and go from there. Chances are, she's not going to commit if she hasn't already.

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