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How do I get this guy? He doesn't feel the same way.


Bethgirl13

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I Like him...

Okay... I know I'm only 14 but I really like this guy.

He is really amazingly funny, hes smart, good looking and really sweet.

We are really good friends at the moment but I don't just want to be friends with him.

 

I found out the other day that he doesn't fancy me at all and now I just can't stop thinking about him

 

I really don't know what to do

 

I just want him to feel the same way

 

what should I do? :(

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Beth,

 

Sorry that you are feeling this way.

 

Honestly, though, if you feel that he isn't into you, perhaps, you need to sever the friendship for a while if being around him is too painful.

 

OR

 

You can try to make him like you by looking your super best and being a little flirtatious with him. If you get no response, let go.

 

Always go for the boys that are into you.

 

Best of luck,

 

Marlena

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Sorry Beth, it probably wouldn't work out. I'm a boy, and I would only show interest in girls I like or want to be in a relationship with. If he hasn't done anything, it's probably not worth it. You can't have him like you without looking like a fake. He's probably not worth the struggle. I suggest you stay his friend, as EVERYONE needs friends who are of the opposite gender. They're awesome! But I know from prior experience that this requires discipline. Whatever you do, stay strong, and good luck.

LikesMeNot, Feb. 18, 2008

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I've had this problem with some girls that have boyfriends and I can't really forget about them. The next step is to start looking for another person, quit making contact with him for a bit until you can start something else or know you are over him. Most of the time, you are going to want something just because you can't have it.

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No religious offense applied, but why do you think God gave us free will to begin with? Sometimes when I find myself totally dejected that I can't have a guy I really like, I just learn to deal and move on because we can't change how people feel about us but we can choose to be with ppl who feel the same.

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No religious offense applied, but why do you think God gave us free will to begin with? Sometimes when I find myself totally dejected that I can't have a guy I really like, I just learn to deal and move on because we can't change how people feel about us but we can choose to be with ppl who feel the same.

 

 

Very true, but there aren't many humans who can just 'get over their feelings' in a few days and move on. Some people take a week, I usually take a few weeks to get over the other people (fortunately for me, there's only been one before) and some people take a while longer.

 

My advice to Beth would be just to enjoy being 14 and enjoy the companionship of your friends and in while you'll meet someone new, and exciting who may have a mutual fondness for you, too.

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