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Old 17th October 2007, 11:38 PM   #1
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Confusion - I like girl; I think girl likes me; girl on outs with previous boyfriend.

There is this one young lady who I have been working with for a few months now at my current job that I am confused about.

For the record, I do have some feelings for this young lady.

From the time that I've met her, I've known that she's been dating this other guy for quite some time. They moved to the area together shortly before she began working where I work. As I have worked together with her these past months, she seems to be showing signs that she's becoming more fond of me. These "signs" began to show when she started having some problems with her boyfriend. She would often talk to me, even about very personal things. Sometimes it almost seemed she would make excuses to talk to me, because she did so quite often.

As of recent, she's been trying to leave her current boyfriend situation. Long story short: his odd, jealous, controlling behaviors were driving her away from him. I am not really sure what is happening between them, as she hasn't elaborated, but from what I do know, she's trying to leave him for good. She moved out from her shared apartment with the guy and moved in with a friend, although I am unsure whether or not this is just a temporary thing.

And in all of this, she seems to be becoming much, much closer to me. We talk on the phone now, which is new. We text each other often. We hang out at times when we are not at work. We talk A LOT about more personal things, and more often. She is introducing me to her friends.

She, however, has not indicated "straight-up" that she could have feelings for me of some sort. I have not indicated my interest back, either.

So I am not sure what to do. She is on the outs with her boyfriend--I don't think they are going to reconcile (although I know he really wants to); I am unclear if the boyfriend is an ex, yet. Some people are telling me to "make a move" because the signs are present that she may be interested in me, while I'm choosing to be cautious because of the levity of the situation she is involved in.

She has considered moving back to where she originally moved from, but in a very indirect way, she has said that she is not sure if she wants to move back because of me. There could be a time factor in all of this.

Any input would be appreciated. Should I "make a move?" Should I continue to feel out the situation? Should I err on the side of caution for a little while longer? What do you think?

Thanks!
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Old 18th October 2007, 12:14 AM   #2
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OMG!
She says she MIGHT have feelings for you?
Move on! Exit stage left! Whatever!

Cheers!
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Old 18th October 2007, 2:58 AM   #3
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You're gonna get friendzoned. Bail out, brother.
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Old 18th October 2007, 5:44 AM   #4
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OMG!
She says she MIGHT have feelings for you?
Move on! Exit stage left! Whatever!

Cheers!
She hasn't said that, yet.

It's just implied by her actions.
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