Originally Posted by Ckathk
He said a lot of things before but didn't end up doing it. I'm afraid that this is a false hope too. What do you guys think? How should I handle it?
ask him what time his plane gets in?
i have to say, your relationship sounds so boring, plodding along without any spark or romance, longing or affection.
sortof like a business or a movie that went from the beginning to what you think is supposed to be the happy ending.
i would think you would say, "i'm getting engaged, can't wait to see the ring, he's gonna be here soon!!". but no.
he's clearly let you down before and somehow you think it's going to be different this time.
and maybe it will, however i would not plan a single thing till after he arrives and i sure as **** would not jump thru hoops so he can meet everyone and "see how it goes".
if he loved you and couldn't live without you, it would not matter a tinker's damn if he gets along with everyone, it would only matter how soon you two could be together and where.