greeneyedgirl23 Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Hi Guys! I have posted a couple of things on this site before regarding a friend of mine. I am just looking for opinions on what is normal male "FRIEND" behavior... If you were just friends with a girl, would you habitually call her when you were out with the guys, and then when you got home to talk at all hours of the night? Even when on vacation? (This guy does he also talks about how he is going to meet all these chicks, but is on the phone with me all the time he is in the club!??) Would you EVER do late night hang-ups to see what she was doing? Would you ever call her from the shower? How about alone time with her, would it consist of driving listening to music, and parking and talking until the wee hours of the morning? Mostly about deep/ intimatley close things. I'm happy to hear any opinon, these are just some of the consistant behaviors I have been experiencing with a friend of mine, and Im wondering if other male- female friendships are like this one. Link to post Share on other sites
emotionsmessmeup Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 yes...its normal... all that dont mean a thing... Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 when I was dating a girl, I used to call another girl and yak about nothing. I was just bored and wanted to talk to someone. But I suppose that didn't work out too well cos she (the other girl) was acting a little strange after a while.. And I just stopped calling. I just wanted friendship, but she was probably looking for more. Goes to show how hard it is for men and women to be just friends. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Yes, I could do all of these. And do, with male as well as female friends. Equally he could be into you. Would you like him to be? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr.positive Posted August 1, 2005 Share Posted August 1, 2005 He probably like you. And dosn't know how to tell you. <a href=http://www.worldwideelf.com/>mike</a> Link to post Share on other sites
zonarosa Posted August 6, 2005 Share Posted August 6, 2005 Originally posted by elijahBailey when I was dating a girl, I used to call another girl and yak about nothing. I was just bored and wanted to talk to someone. But I suppose that didn't work out too well cos she (the other girl) was acting a little strange after a while.. And I just stopped calling. I just wanted friendship, but she was probably looking for more. Goes to show how hard it is for men and women to be just friends. I'm sorry! I don't think you should do that to a single girl! You can't seek her attention and pursue long conversations on the phone without coming across as wanting more - plus it's time stolen from when she could be meeting guys that want to be available - and the fact that you called her up simply b/c you were "bored"? Marks you as bit of a user? Personally speaking, if all the other qualities for attraction are there (looks, personality etc) the ability to continue to have long and fruitful conversations is going to cement any attraction I may have for a guy, since that's where you discover whether there's chemistry. Use this talent wisely. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted August 6, 2005 Share Posted August 6, 2005 I was young and ignorant then. Honest.... Link to post Share on other sites
zonarosa Posted August 6, 2005 Share Posted August 6, 2005 Originally posted by elijahBailey I was young and ignorant then. Honest.... the best defense... Link to post Share on other sites
loony Posted August 6, 2005 Share Posted August 6, 2005 Calling someone at night and talking till the sun rises is in my opinion too much. Unless he knows for sure that you have no romantic interest for him he should keep some distance between you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author greeneyedgirl23 Posted August 7, 2005 Author Share Posted August 7, 2005 Thanks for all of the replies everyone!!! As for talking till the sun comes up, I think that he does know that I have feelings for him. So maybe that isn't fair for him to do/ expect... Link to post Share on other sites
Author greeneyedgirl23 Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Do you guys suppose he does have more than friend interest? I don't want to ask just yet.... Link to post Share on other sites
crazygirl21 Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 ok I think hes just a friend. I have a male friend ,we became so close recently we get on so well, we work together and just the way he acts around me does he like me more than a friend? when we talk he stares at my eyes alot when talkin to me he raises his eyebrows at times aswell he messes with me and makes excuses to touch my hands ,arms etc messes and pretends to grab my breasts trips me up at work at times excuse to get close to me we touch hands alot etc writes my name all over things and with a heart on it before flirts alot with me play and fool around at work he takes things belonging to me sometimes and hides them on me talks dirty etc. so what do you think respond back and let me know plez Link to post Share on other sites
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