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Old 6th October 2017, 7:26 AM   #1
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Is my friend (female with bf) flirting with my male friend?

A female friend of mine has been flirting with my male friend for 6-7yrs. (same group of friends) She has a boyfriend and have had it for 5yrs. Right before they got together she was heavily flirting with him. After she got her boyfriend it obviously stopped a little, but she has been flirty with him every once in a while..

That includes:
-Kissing him on the neck
-Kissing him on the cheek and calling him cute
-Sitting next to him as often as possible, often holding her arms (and him holding around her)
-She cuddling his hair, but stopping when someone saw her cuddling his hair
-Complimenting how beautiful his eyes are
-Night out, she hugging him 8-9 times in the space of 2-3hrs, but no one else
-Putting her finger in his mouth while drunk, and no one else being there (saw it myself)
-Laying on top of him drunk and putting her fingers on his lips (she seems very keen on his lips)
-Being the last ones in the sauna they got in the shower together to shower (with bikini on). She held her arms over him
-Kissing him on the lips when sitting on his lap (right before she got her boyfriend)
He seems to like all these things, and doesn't push her away. She is very attractive so I think he find her attractive

We're (our group of friends) are going on a vacation to Spain soon for 5-6 days. She is going and he is going, but not her boyfriend. Do you think anything will happen between them there, and what?

Thoughts? How attracted/horny is she with him? A little? Very? Extremely?
Does she want to/is she sleep with him?
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Old 6th October 2017, 7:35 AM   #2
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Why do you care if this guy is only your friend? Is it bothering him? If so he should say something to her. If not, you should mind your business.
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Old 6th October 2017, 12:42 PM   #3
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There are 3 people involved in this: your male friend, your female friend & your female friend's BF. You are not one of the people who needs to be concerned. If her behavior bothers you stop hanging around her. I think it's interesting that you seem to be condemning her but don't say anything about the guy's role in this. Presumably if he was uncomfortable with the physicality between them, he'd do something about it. Since nobody but you seems to be objecting, either vote with your feet & get a new group of friends or ignore it.
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Old 6th October 2017, 2:34 PM   #4
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Yes, of course they're going to fool around,but why on earth should you care? You've been friends with him for several years. If he was ever going to be interested in you that way, it would have happened in the first six months, so you have no reason to care about this.
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Old 8th October 2017, 11:00 AM   #5
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Yes, of course they're going to fool around,but why on earth should you care? You've been friends with him for several years. If he was ever going to be interested in you that way, it would have happened in the first six months, so you have no reason to care about this.
I just want an unbiased opinion of it by you guys, and no I'm not interested at all. Just curious to know what you all think.
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Yes, yes and yes. She's been flirting with him and intends on sleeping with him. Beware.
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Old 8th October 2017, 2:16 PM   #7
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Update on the trip to spain: As people were choosing who to share bedrooms with (big house, 2 per each bedroom) they didn't choose anyone, and as a result, were the only ones left without partners. So they are sharing the bedroom for the entire trip for 6-7 days.

Can't be good? or?
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Old 8th October 2017, 7:53 PM   #8
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Please break up with him, Sarah. He's cheating on you. You're just going to get hurt if you let this continue any longer.
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