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Hello everyone,

 

yesterday I wished a girl I never spoke to before "happy birthday" on Facebook and she responded well (with a smiley).

We go to same school and she has seen me many times before.

 

After a few minutes she asked me whats up and we were chatting for a while and I think she likes me.

 

The problem is that I don't know what to talk about anymore...I really really really don't want this bond to end or just say "hi" to her when I see her next...I want to become her friend or more since I like her very very much.

 

If you need more information please respond.

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d0nnivain

First try to relax. She is most likely as nervous as you are.

 

There are lots of things to talk about:

 

 

  • What's going on at school
  • The up coming test
  • Your favorite restaurant or food
  • the cool new thing you saw at the mall
  • what you watched on TV last night or what you are looking forward to seeing
  • What you plan to do for summer vacation
  • The latest movie, song, video or app

 

The key is to talk. Ask Questions about her. be interested when she answers. Spend time with her. Work up the courage to ask her to a school dance or to at least sit by her at a sporting event.

 

Understand you can't build a relationship through social media or text. You actually have to spend time together.

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Alright, I often see her online on Facebook and I'd like to talk to her, I just don't know what to talk about...that's all.

 

Example:

Me: Hey there

Her: Hi

Me: ...

 

Help me out.

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d0nnivain

You:

 

How you do on the algebra test?

 

Did you see the xyz on TV last night?

 

What are your plans for today?

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