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Will his housemate steal him from me?


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Am so worriedly fb and I are both students at different unis and move into a house in our 2nd year in a few weeks time. I'm with 5 other girls .... He is with a boy and girl who have since become a coupe and a single girl. They are all on the same law course. He is already close to this girl, they study and socialise together . We can only afford to see each a couple of times a month so am worried she will get even closer to him as it will be very cosy ! Help how do these situations usually end up ? As much as he loves me now should I be worried ?

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There may be some initial attraction, but I doubt it'd last. Usually you find someone you love, then you live with them and learn about all their wacky living habits, but by that point you love them and don't care. If you're immediately living together with no romantic relationship, you often find their habits very annoying very quickly!

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Do you trust your BF? If so act like it. Talk to him. Be interesting, entertaining, and fun. Don't be a clingy drag who is constantly suspicious. Make sure the new single roommate knows you exist.

 

She is there & you are not so that is one advantage to her but he is your BF. Try to relax. Not ever set of housemates hook up.

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Depends on how much you trust him, and what kind of person he is.

 

You're probably not gonna like my story much, but it must be mentioned.

 

When I was in college I dated a guy. He moved to a new house and a girl was there. I didn't think anything of it. Over time, the guy started acting shady and didn't want me over there anymore. One night, I ran into him at a bar, he was with his housemate. He pretended he didn't see me and left with her. I accused him of cheating on me with her and he said I was insane and that he'd never get with his housemate. Not long after I stopped seeing him, and within a month or so it popped up on facebook that they were engaged. They're now happily married

 

I was moreso mad that he made me feel stupid when my initial instincts were spot on.

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Thanks for those comments , find it reassuring that annoying habits might get in the way of romance ..I have no control over the situation at although which I find hard . The fact that she'll be the last person to see him at night and first to see him in the morning ! Just hope it's a case of absence making the heart fonder or whatever and not out of sight out if mind.

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