bsacamano69 Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 My girlfriend is very uncomfortable with intimacy. The only thing we've done is cuddle. We've been friends for a year and a half and just recently started going out. Showing affection has been a struggle for her her entire life, so I'm in no rush and don't want to put her in a situation where she feels uncomfortable, but this is a big issue for the both of us. I don't want to break up with her because she's my best friend and I care about her a lot, but I'm worried that she'll never want to take things further. Any advice would be helpful here. Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel V. Ross Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Maybe she has her own reason why she is acting like that. Try to have a serious talk with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 How long have you been going out? Since you said you just recently started, I figure it hasn't been that long. There's no reason to rush it. I waited 6 months with 2 of my past boyfriends before starting up with sexual intimacy. Not because I had any problem with intimacy but because I wanted us to have an actual loving relationship based on our mental and emotional compatibility rather than sex. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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