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So my backstory is here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t230587/

 

I have finally resolved this whole thing. And I am quite upset and so i am posting. But here is what happened.

 

Ok so in the whole 2 and a half years i have known him i have NEVER been to his place. Not even his suburb.

 

Yesterday though i visited my specialist dentist who had just moved to a suburb next to his. It was after work hours and i texted him that i was in the area blah blah. Anyway he said he was still at work and that it wasnt a good day to come over because he wont be there til later.

 

I didnt get that message til later and went there anyway. He wasnt home .

 

Anyway so today i texted asking when it would be a convenient time to visit, and this is the text i got:

 

"No and now you have gone back to where you were before. There is no relationship. So either you respect what i want or i dont see you at all. Up to you"

 

 

He thinks that i would still sleep with him after that??????? Not welcome at his house and he thinks thats OK???

 

IS this guy a %$#&&!!

 

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He thinks that i would still sleep with him after that??????? Not welcome at his house and he thinks thats OK???

 

IS this guy a %$#&&!!

 

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you should drop this buffoon like a hot potatoe

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please keep talking to me alphamale (or anyone else)

 

I am trying not to text back

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what sort of person IS he?

he sounds like he is hiding something major....

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he isnt married or anything like that

 

he has been to my house hundreds of times

 

it makes me shiver to think i have let him walk over me for so long, that he thinks its ok to text me something liek that and that there is STILL a possibility i will still want to see him, let alone sleep with him

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it makes me shiver to think i have let him walk over me for so long, that he thinks its ok to text me something liek that and that there is STILL a possibility i will still want to see him, let alone sleep with him

go into total NC and see what he does

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he sounds like he is hiding something major....

 

 

No he thinks that if i go to his house then its a relationship/ friendship and he just wants someone to shag.

 

seriously he is single, (divorced) he isnt hiding anything- i know that even though it sounds really suss

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go into total NC and see what he does

 

 

Well he said it was "up to me" so i dont think he would care if he never heard from me again.

 

I havent texted.

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No he thinks that if i go to his house then its a relationship/ friendship and he just wants someone to shag.

thats sort of stupid...he must be some type of control freak

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it just cuts really deep to think that someone i have known so intimately doesnt want me to go to their house

 

ive never had anyone not want me to go to their house. Things like that really hurt me.

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Well he said it was "up to me" so i dont think he would care if he never heard from me again.

 

I havent texted.

well you need to end this FWB scenario

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What is unbelieveable is that YOU even talk to this a$$wipe.

 

Do you believe you can do better than him?

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What is unbelieveable is that YOU even talk to this a$$wipe.

 

Do you believe you can do better than him?

 

 

I damn well hope so.

 

He is an a$$ isnt he?

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I damn well hope so.

 

He is an a$$ isnt he?

 

Don't hope so, know so.

Yes. He is an ASS. You better not call him and if he calls you for sex tell him that Mishy is no longer a recepticle for his d*ck. He is just a little immature boy and your looking for a man.

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the text he sent- its just like he knows that i will still be ok with it all.

 

its just so arrogant

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Until you stand up for yourself he will continue to believe he has power over you. If he really care for you do you think he would say the things he does?

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Until you stand up for yourself he will continue to believe he has power over you. If he really care for you do you think he would say the things he does?

 

Is not replying to the text standing up for myself?

 

I mean what on earth can i say in response to that text?

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Do you really love this man?

 

i definately have (had? ) feelings for him

 

How on earth does a girl not after sleeping with a guy for two and a half years?

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i definately have (had? ) feelings for him

 

How on earth does a girl not after sleeping with a guy for two and a half years?

 

I understand.

 

The thing is he doesn't love you. He is taking the best of you and giving nothing in return. You/he are/is having relations not making love.

 

Is what he gives you ( an orgasm ) enough?

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No its not enough. Its more about how he treats me. And just on a basic human level- the fact that after all this time i am not welcome in his house

 

that cuts

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I keep thinking of things i want to text back to him. but i havent

 

is it better to just say nothing and not reply to that heinous text?

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