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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:04 PM   #1
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Flaky Girls, Older Girls, Younger Girls, and everything under the sun.

Alright. So I'm far to lazy to post this as several posts, And I doubt that they would even count as posts. But here's what's on my mind and in my heart (Talk about as many of the topics or as few as you'd like)

Before you read: A little about me, I'm 16. Just got out of a rehabilitative boarding school, I used to be hardcore afraid of girls but now I understand the game a lot more and am applying my new found ways, But I'm still a virgin.

#1 (And the most pressing): Recently I met this beautiful girl in Chemistry. She is new in school too. After 2 or so days of exchanging looks I decided to sit near her. We started talking quite a bit and I played it pretty well. Now she laughs at all my jokes and gives me these really deep looks and flirtatious smiles (But of course I beat her at the eye contact game :P). Of course I wouldn't be posting about this if it was picture perfect. So she we've hung out after school a few times to study chemistry. But shes been pretty flaky. I just don't understand why she'll show up or wont show up at all when she asks me to hang out. Also she has a boyfriend in her old city but I'm not worried about that. Any comments or answers to the situation are appreciated.

#2 So a while back I got my heartbroken by this girl who is turning 19 this month. Now It was the usual "nice guy loses out" thing except with a pretty big twist, she likes me back. I've kissed her but she is pretty crazy and emotionally f***ed up. Of course I still feel for her and we're close but I don't know what to do with this girl.

#3 I find 2 14 year old (freshman) girls pretty attractive and 1 is my friends sister, any rules or cautions?


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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:13 PM   #2
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Are you even supposed to be up this late, let alone posting on a forum at the age of 16?
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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:15 PM   #3
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I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not. But it's 8:00 PM in California.
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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:17 PM   #4
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No sarcasm... it's 11:15pm here...

And, what you class as "older" is still young to me, I am sure, son.
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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:18 PM   #5
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I do not mean older as in 19 being old but as a 2 and a half year older girl in a relationship.
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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:20 PM   #6
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I wish I had input for you... but, I have a daughter, and boys are my mortal enemy.
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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:21 PM   #7
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#3 I find 2 14 year old (freshman) girls pretty attractive and 1 is my friends sister, any rules or cautions?
Beware of their Mama's.
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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:22 PM   #8
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Ah, well that's where the hostility comes from. Well rest assured since I'm posting here I obviously care atleast slightly about the objects of my affection.
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Old 2nd October 2008, 11:41 PM   #9
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High School I think I remember that... Yeah heres a tip grow some balls and kiss the girl you've been wink wink nudge nudge studying with. And Don't wory about your virginity
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Old 3rd October 2008, 1:48 AM   #10
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It is definately not the correct juncture for that lol.
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Old 3rd October 2008, 2:19 AM   #11
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dude your a teenage guy... you are your own worst enemy when it comes to getting any where with girls. If its just you two studying and you like her its the perfect time to try to kiss her. or if your cool enough to be part of the HS party circuit then invite her to a party your going to and be sure to kiss her then before some one else does. I know what I'm talking about
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I'm really struggling for opinions and advice here, can anyone help a young guy looking to start a relationship the right way and treat a girl right?
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Old 6th October 2008, 12:06 AM   #13
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I gave you good advice what did you do all weekend?
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Old 7th October 2008, 12:16 AM   #14
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I hung out with a bunch of friends and talked to some girls, So this girl that I'm hanging out with out here is new to school too but she has a boyfriend bac in berkeley (about 2 hours away) is there any way to essentially steal her away because he is kind of bad news.
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I hung out with a bunch of friends and talked to some girls, So this girl that I'm hanging out with out here is new to school too but she has a boyfriend bac in berkeley (about 2 hours away) is there any way to essentially steal her away because he is kind of bad news.
its not even stealing her away just ignore the fact she has a bf, and flirt with her, touch her and then kiss. If she mentions her bf just keep going as if you heard nothing
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