Well i'm a 22 year old male and i think i may have a problem. I say its a problem because i don't feel normal, The way i think is does not feel like a way a guy my age would think. (I'm clustered i'm having a hard time putting my sentences together)


Whenever i see a girl The only way i can think about sleeping with her is if i force that thought into my head. Say i see a good looking girl, Instead of automatically thinking "I want to bang her, I wonder how big your tits are etc"
I think about Holding her, Spending time just talking! I don't know how to explain this, I basically just want them to love me. It's odd, instead of fantasizing about her performing an sexual act with me I day dream about her undying loyalty to me, I run through scenarios where Another guy tries to take her away form me and she Puts her arm around me and says stuff like "THIS IS ALL TH EMAN I NEED"

I AM TOTALLY F*CKED in my opinion! When my friends comment "I'd like to ride that all night" I'm thinking more like "I'd like to stay up all night talking with that nice young woman!"

It's frustrating! I just want to hold girls, kiss them gently, Spend time with them. I'm not gay , I've thought about that but i'm not attracted to guys at all. I have a sexual hunger for girls.

[julesstarr]

I think that is so sweet that you think like that. THere is nothing wrong that you feel like that toward other women. You respect them and that is important. But if you feel no desire to do sexual things with them and just talk to them, that can be interesting. I think once you get a girlfriend or get married you might feel a little different. Hopefully your thoughts will change to sexual ones. But right now thinking about a friendship then developing it into a romantic relationship is good. You will find that girl that will change the way you feel..dont worry!!

[Sand&Water]

TheLostone84,

Firstly, you shouldn't worry about this uneasiness at all. It is normal. It means you have a heart, and care tremendously about women in general.

You mentally connect the dots differently, than most horny males.

Enjoy your relationships!

[a4a]

Honey is that you????

Dag you sound like my H.

He thinks pretty much the same way.

The only advice I can give you is once you do find a nice woman that you have real not just sexual interest in, every now and then just let her know that you do want her in a very very sexual way.

Not anything wrong with your thinking at all. You sound mature and thoughtful IMHO.