Greetings,
My love for one year has decided to dump me and try to work things out with her husband. Here's the kicker...we work together very closely...and I know what you are about to say! Anyway, I can't change that so the rule of NC is impossible unless I quit...that can't happen.

I have opened my heart down to the veins for this girl and I am floored by what she has told me. It took some prying to get it out of her but she did tell me. We had a very lengthy civil conversation about it...she says she is still in love with me but her husband has changed and she has grown close to him. From everything she told me over the previous year, I would never thought that possible.

Of course she want's to remain friends etc. and how can we not, working so close together? There is no where for me to go or transfer either. I love her but I don't won't to play games to force her to do the same...if she aint got it, she ain't got it! My gut tells me this ain't gonna work with the hubby but I don't want to be second fiddle either. You either love someone or you don't in my book. Any suggestions on how to handle?

Thanks

Originally Posted by Brokewing

Greetings,
My love for one year has decided to dump me and try to work things out with her husband. Here's the kicker...we work together very closely...and I know what you are about to say! Anyway, I can't change that so the rule of NC is impossible unless I quit...that can't happen.

I have opened my heart down to the veins for this girl and I am floored by what she has told me. It took some prying to get it out of her but she did tell me. We had a very lengthy civil conversation about it...she says she is still in love with me but her husband has changed and she has grown close to him. From everything she told me over the previous year, I would never thought that possible.

Of course she want's to remain friends etc. and how can we not, working so close together? There is no where for me to go or transfer either. I love her but I don't won't to play games to force her to do the same...if she aint got it, she ain't got it! My gut tells me this ain't gonna work with the hubby but I don't want to be second fiddle either. You either love someone or you don't in my book. Any suggestions on how to handle?

Thanks

Thanks folks!